How would a 14 year old girl tell her friends and parents that she's bisexual?

Question

I feel uncomfortable telling my friends/family that I am bisexual. I don't know how they'd react, and I am afraid of my friends looking at me differently. Should I just keep this secret to myself or come out about it? I don't know what to say when I do break the ice someday, help?!

Answer 1

Well... 14... I reckon they'd give you odd looks and stuff but when you reach year 11, people are more understanding and they'll be cool with it!! Your friends I mean!!

I'm not sure about family... cause I went to this party last night and my best friend's mum saw him hooking up with a guy and she went nuts!!!!!

Answer 2

i am the exact same way ! only im 13 i would wait till im about 15 and up cuz then they wouldnt question u if it was just puberty hormones

Answer 3

Because of your age I would suggest keep your secret a secret for the next year or 2, You are under no pressure to go tell everyone about your bi-sexuality or even at your age it might even be just bi-curiosity,  

   When I was your age I struggled with trying to deal with and try and aaccept myself and a cross dresser and also bi-curious, I was scared to death someone would catch me when I was dressed up in pantyhose or my sisters bra and panties, or if someone would catch me when I was experimenting with another male friend and giving and recieving oral, and this was at your age,, I really suggest keeping it to yourslf, give yourself time to try and figure out where you are sexually

Answer 4

A lot of young teens are not entirely sure about how to define their sexuality.  It can take till your in your 20s or later to sort that out.  I would keep it quiet unless you NEED to talk about it--especially if your'e getting depressed.  If you don't feel like you want to talk to your parents, maybe a school counselor?  Good luck--these are the tough years--life DOES get easier as you get older

Answer 5

You should keep it to yourself.

You'll grow out of it.