How would i go about finding myself?

Question

i'm 21 almost 22

will grad in december

i dont know who i am....personality wise, one day i will say i am "xyz", but later i will find out that its just not me...so what do i do?

Answer 1

First, to find oneself, you must know who  you are looking for.  Start with a name.  A phone number.  Some shred of evidence to go on.

Actually, I have no clue given that I have no clue who I am- I have many different parts of my personality, none of which match up.

Answer 2

ok well here's the deal you choose who ur going to be and u can't keep chjanging just to please other pppl stay true to urself and don't let others change you unless it's needed hope i could help

Answer 3

It is time for you to take inventory.....

Get some lined note book paper and a pencil...

Draw a line perpendicular down the center of one page.

On the left side:  Write down your physical characteristics.

This will include..personality characteristics...intravert...extravert....

(write them down...as you would want others to see you...)

On the right side:..Write down your most basic beliefs.

This is important...a person is what they believe.

Page Two:  Left side...Write down your talents or specific skills...On the right side...Write down what you are not good at.

Now spend time thinking about what you have written....your notes will tell who you are...

Page Three:  Left Side...Think about where you want to be in six months...write it down...write down some goals...

Then write goals for:  one year.....five years....and ten years....

This takes some thought...but after you have done this..you will have an idea of who you are...what you believe...and where you are going....

It worked for me.....now I am on my twenty year plan...

Answer 4

I am forty one and have just now found out where to find that answer.  I am going to save you years of searching and a whole lot of money. Something I wish someone would have told me twenty years ago. Look deep inside yourself to the true person you are. Not what your parents, churches, teachers or friends want you to be, but the true person you were born to be. Always be totally honest with yourself and everything in life.  Go back to your childhood and remember that one thing you really wanted to be and do it.  I know you have no reason to trust me, but I am just telling you the truth. My life experiences of not listening to the real me inside and being who I thought everyone else wanted me to be has caused a lifetime of underlying misery of failure and now life has made sure that I have no choice but to become that person or suffer forever. I learned this eight months ago and the day I learned that and a few more secrets I have actually enjoyed living life for the first time ever. Still broke as ever but life is so much better.

Answer 5

I have been searching for quite some time myself, and still am searching. I think I am getting close though.

Experiment with different personalities until you find one that works. Identify the personalities of friends and family and find one that you feel the most comfortable with and strive to be like that person. Your core self will remain the same, only the way you express yourself will change.

Answer 6

"Life isn't about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself."

- george bernard shaw