How would i go about turning around my life?

Question

things are not going to well, I'm 21 and not proud of any thing i've done, how should i go about turning things around

Answer 1

The easier said than done thing to do is.. Move to another state

lol that's exactly what i did.. I went from FLA to Cali

left everyone i associated with.. i talk to them occasionally on the phone and the computer and thats it.

started a new job and met all new ppl.

Best thing I have ever done.

If you can't move.. just make sure to always remember to put yourself first and your family. Your decisions normally turn out for the better

good luck

Answer 2

be optimistic and not cynical about things

and be nice to people

and dont be selfish

what comes around goes around

Answer 3

Change your place, change your life. Good luck!

Answer 4

Are you Christian? If not or if so, find a church to attend that really has an effect on you.  A Charismatic church is very open and comfortable and fun.  It will also teach you how to have a real relationship with God.  It is so hard to "change your ways" by yourself, ask God to help with that burden and your life will be much easier. You will see that it will be easy to make better decisions more often and you will be on your way to turning your life around.  God Bless your efforts.

Answer 5

its never too late

make some goals

try to do anything to accomplish them

start working out

make new relationships with people.

Answer 6

Well here's a list of things I can think of:

Make a list of all the bad things you have done and say sorry for them and fix them (like on my name is earl)

Go to College/university and get a job, so you can head in the track of make a stable life for your self.

Stop hanging around bad people (if you do)

See a councilor.

Answer 7

Well for one change your attitude about yourself and start by writing what it is exactly you want to do and build the way from there.  Have a pity party and get into action.  You may need to change your association if need be b/c ppl have a tendency to hold us back from more in the positive side to living.  You have a very full life ahead so don't waste it on sitting still get moving.  GL!!

Answer 8

For starters, don't get your help from strangers on the net.