How would u feel if someone did this to you?

Question

if you wanted to spend time with your cousin and u persuaded her several times to visit you where u live, but she never came and she kept saying she was busy then when u ask her what she is doing and all she gives you is a lot of excuses, how would u feel

Answer 1

then stop bothering her if she wants to be a little stuck up you know what, forget her

Answer 2

I will be sad/angry and never ask my cousin again.

Answer 3

I would take the high road and try to make a trip to go see her.  Maybe she really is very busy, or maybe she can't afford it, or some other logical excuse that she doesn't really want to tell you.  family is everything and it would be sad to see this get in the way of a relationship with your cousin.  and so you know, I would also feel bad, but you can't let that stop you.

Answer 4

when she invited me to come, I would use the same excuses on her as she did on me.

Answer 5

I think you need to tell her that you feel like you are left on the back burner. I think this will open up what is really going on here and let her know that you won't accept anymore lame excuses and that you deserve to know the truth!

Answer 6

Sad yes.

Dont ask her again,,EVER!!!

Answer 7

I would be upset - but after the first few excuses I would get the hint that she does not want to come visit me - it's rude and that's mean of her but whatever right?