How would you advice me to act concerning these DREAMs????

Question

dream 1:

saw a bible scroll, the words were written in "thou, shalt etc..but i remember seeing the word PATIENCE! and i saw my EX complaining to his friend abt a girl forcing him to do things......I was confused so i prayed to God for better understanding....

dream 2 ( two days after the 1st dream): i heard a voice ( old man's voice) telling me that a lady was forcing my EX with pleasures of the heart....and that my Ex doent know that a girl he met (me) is better than....i do not remember the rest.lol

The voice warned me( more like consoling me) to be PATIENT and i should just WAIT and SEE!!!

my younger bro also told me he had a dream and someone old him to tell me to be PATIENT!!!

background: my bf of 2 months just stopped talking to me for no reason( was avoiding me ( picked uo other people's calls) for several weeks so i broke up with him and h still didnt say anything)

he acts like nothing ever happened btw us...

okay, i really dont know how to be patient....i pray to God about it everyday ever since i had the dream! sometimes i feel like i'm really losing him ( it been 4 months already that we havent talked and we see eachother twice a week) and i just NEED the strength and grace to be patient

WHAT DO I DO???

Answer 1

"do all that you know to do(or do not do what you know you should not do) and trust GOD for all the rest"

Answer 2

It's all pshycological. You're just seeing those dreams because your mind wants you to see them. Or  better yet, because YOU want to see them. Of course, I don't beleive in God since I believe he is a sadistic jerk (note:all the suffering in this world) so, since i dont believe in him/her and you do, then my answer would me meaningless to you.

But here is a religious answer for you.

God has answered your prayer and is giving you his holy grace.

Answer 3

You have already answered your own question, Sweetie.  Be patient.  You cannot force love so try (it won't be easy) to focus on other things.  School, friends, sports, whatever will take your mind off him.  You will find in time that this will turn out for the best.  God has a plan for you, even if you do not see it right now.