How would you ask this question about horses?

Question

i know someone who has their own farm and 11 horses(she goes to church with my mother). Most of them are draft horses that she trains and shows at the fairs in our area, as well as use for trail horses. I wanted to ask her if I could come visit her and the horses and maybe if I'm lucky groom one or two and small horse stuff again (okay anything to get near a horse,I miss them so much). . . so how would you ask someone if you could come round and help out with their horses? maybe lease one if they were willing? I just miss being around horses and she seem nice and very knowledgeable about draft horses. I'd like to learn as much as I can about draft horses before I get one.

Answer 1

I am too however I would put it business-like. IE I would just say hey if you ever need any help cleaning or grooming or even exercising I would be glad to. We used to have horses and I miss it.  Or just state you would trade cleaning or work to exercise the horses if she were interested and you have experience. Depends how she is would determine which i'd use.

Answer 2

I have been in a similar position. Ask her nicely if she would like any help with her horses, grooming and maybe riding and mucking out. Tell her how long you have been riding, and that you have experience owning horses. You could also ask if she has any horses that you could possibly lease one of her horses in the future

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Well, I know this may seem hard for you since you are shy, but plain out ask her "can I come to your barn and help out?" I'm sure she will appreciate your help, and you shouldn't miss out on horses. Probably after a while she will let you groom or maybe even ride one of her horses! Good Luck!

Answer 4

Why would anyone be offended by complimenting their horses and wishing to be around them?  I would ask your mom to deliver a note in which you could explain your background and experience, so that the owner would realize that you would actually be a help and not a burden.  In the note, I would keep it simple....just express the desire to visit and maybe groom the horses.  If you get an invitation, then you can get to know her and go from there.

Answer 5

Start a conversation with her about anything. Then bring up your horse plans. After that say dont you have horses, and let her brag a little. Then say i am looking for a job because i need to save for ahorse and i really want to work as a stable hand or groom to get as much experience as possible. So if you know anyone who needs help or if you need any help , please let me know. I am...

get it!?

Answer 6

If your shy, you could "fish" a little.

Tell her you love horses ( just like you said here).

I think she'll get a good vibe from you and give you an invite.

Nothing to lose.

Animal lovers, love other animal lover's( shy or not).

Answer 7

No, if she's a horse person, she's been through that, and she'll understand, don't worry! Just politely say, "Hello! Mrs_________, would you mind if i come up to your barn and help out, i completely understand if you don't want me to."

And so on!

Answer 8

hhaha

i am too

just email her

or write a letter.

or even have your mom talke to her!

Answer 9

Basically, just ask if you could come up to the barn with her one day. She would probably be happy to take you under her wing and teach you a bit about horses.

You: "Mrs. [fill in last name here], would you mind if I came up to the barn with you one day? I would really love to help you out sometime and learn a thing or two."

Answer 10

I'm exactly like you.

Recently, my mom's work hired a new employee who owns a farm with eight horses.

My mom expressed to her that she's a horse lover, has been since she was young.

After a few visits to the farm, Annie (the horse's owner) invited my sister and I to come ride and help break one of her newer horses.

After talking to Annie, she expressed that she would love for us to come back, anytime we want. She gave us the code to her gate to come by, even when she's not home.

Annie also expressed that she needs help cleaning the stables and brushing the horses, which we quickly said we'd do.

So, my advice to you is to approach her (if you're shy, ask your mom to) and ask if you can come and help with basic chores that need to be done around the farm. Your mom can express your love for horses and that you intend on owning one in the future.

I can pretty much guarantee you that the woman will be very open to allowing you on her farm. And may even offer you a job, if you're lucky.