How would you deal with an s/o that goes out on parties a lot?

Question

My bf started to go out on parties a lot while I work till 1:30am. I asked him to at least let me know when he is going but he still doesn’t bother. He’s acting really weird now. What do you think should I do?

Answer 1

He might not feel how much it hurts you. Talk to him again and explain to him how you feel. If he continues then there must be some consequences to his behavior like you spending less time with him and more on work. Whatever his reasons are, be sure to follow up and carry out whatever those consequences are.

Answer 2

I would have a heart to heart with him. If he doesn't change his behavior I would find a new boyfriend. Good Luck :-)