How would you deal withh?

Question

i love my girlfriend to deathh,, but my mother and father dont approve of us,, i can see that it hurts her veryy muchh,, but im not quite sure how to comfort herr,, i try my hardestt,, but i dont want to make it sound like i completely hate my parents,, because i dont,, i just want to know how to make her see that even though my parents dissaprove doesnt mean im going to leave her,, because i have no plans of doing such,, and how to comfort her,, or make her feel betterrr or securee.

Answer 1

tell her you love your parents but nothing could make you not love her...and just explain how much she means to you.

Answer 2

well. if it hurts her about it

you should try talking to your parents

to understand why they dont approve,,

i know its never easy in a relationship for the parent of the other to not like you.

&& im sure its really hard for her.

theres not really much you can do to comfort her

because you cant change the way your parents think about it

only influence.

hopefully for you two they'll come around

but definitely talk to your parents about it,,

dont get me wrong it'll for sure be difficult.

but most likely worth it in the end.

Answer 3

I would suggest you reassure her that, though your parents are 'lacking' the understanding and compassion that they should have...you do not...and...that you love her and are staying with her.  You might also tell her that you hope, one day, that your parents will wise up...and, hopefully they will.  Maybe you could provide some information from PFLAG for your parents...and, let your partner know you're delivering the stuff to them...

Answer 4

You have to show her you are not like your parents and that their opinion no matter how close you are will not affect your relationship. I guess she doesn't have close parents?