How would you feel if you heard your friend slept with your gf before you two met?

Question

My friend just called me up earlier and told me to watch out for the girl and not to fall too hard. He told me that he slept with her before we both started dating and that she is not worthy of trust.

How would you react to this situation?

what do you think is on my friends mind?

Answer 1

i would say you should make up your own mined about her it was before she was with you so that does not realy mater.

Answer 2

i have friends in dat situation...but in this case one of my guy friends [A] went out with this girl slept with her...kept her as a slide...then he introduced her to my other guy friend [B] n he goes out with her now...shes a total nut case n he got her pregnant now n doesnt know wat to do.....i would definitely take his advice...cuz one a girl shouldnt do dat...sleep with 2 friends knowingly....secondly she isnt worth it...i doubt hes hatin...take his advice or ull end up like my friend [B]

Answer 3

Have you listen this joke:

Man comes home,find his girl friend with other friend.

He shoots his friend to death.

Then girl friend says, " If you behave like this,you will lose all your friend's.

Answer 4

MAN I SWEAR THIS JUST HAPPENED TO ME LAST WEEK

I FOUND OUT MY FRIEND HAD ****** MY ******* GIRLFRIEND

AND THAT **** WASNT EVEN FUNNY

I WAS PISSED OFF

PEOPLE SAY IT DOESNT MATTER BUT IT DOED WEN YOU LOVE THAT PERSON

WUN

Answer 5

If this friend of yours said to you this thing about your girlfriend,it means that he want to create in you the feeling not to trust the girl and so makes you  ask her if she really slept with him.This will create a conflict  between  you two and and you will break up.

Answer 6

He is a true friend.The girl may like to sleep around.He got hurt and don't want you 2 go through what he went through.

Answer 7

so what  is he protecting you from?

Women with children get married, are they worthy of trust?

Answer 8

I recon your mates prob a bit uncomfortable with the whole situation... so his way of dealing with it, is to just take her out the picture. So what if they where together before, that was before. she never met you before I guess.. and it's just unfortunate but I'm also guessing she likes you and when a girl finally meets the guy she really likes, everything changes. Her way of thinking her actions etc.. just be happy and enjoy the relationship and tell your mate.." look dude... I like this girl and I'm quite happy to make my own judgments and see how it goes. If it doesn't work out, you can say I told you so."

Answer 9

be careful.  i mean if she slept with your friend it might have been an honest mistake.  i have fallen for guys that have had s*x with my friends and we date.  the only thing is is that they weren't dating and they admit that they had s*x.  your friend could trying to be protecting you from getting hurt or simply may be jealous.  it will be hard to know right now just play it safe.

Answer 10

Why does it matter? If you guys werent dating at the time I wouldnt hold it against her. Thats like her getting mad at you for sleeping around before you guys met. Its ridiculous

Answer 11

If it's a true friend he's only telling you because he cares and wants to make sure you don't get hurt. Elsewise if he's lying then he's jealous and wasn't a true friend to begin with.

Answer 12

PISSED OFF 4 SHORE!!!

Answer 13

I don't know how i would feel but a word of advise things will never work out between the two of you. You will always be wondering and asking if he was better / did he do what you did / etc.

Answer 14

For me, I would walk away from her.  I wouldn't want my friend's left overs.

Answer 15

well at least he told you something that friends would have a hard time bringing it up, and also warned you about the girl, don't be pissed with your friend ok man just try to understand whats it like in his shoes, if I was so happen to be in your situation, I'd feel awkward around her and just end it. We don't wantyour friend and you  and the girl meeting up, h***s gonna break loose.

Answer 16

I can't tell you much about what's on your friend's mind.  But I can tell you this much.  If you can't trust a person, you can't have a relationship.  So if this is something that is going to bother you, you two better discuss this and resolve the issue.

Personally, I would get to know the person before I made a decision.  I would also let her know that you know the situation.  But remember, what happened before you two met is the past.  It really shouldn't influence your future together.