How would you feel if your wife/gf/spouse wanted ?

Question

to bear a child for another woman/couple?

This follows on from a previous question "Ladies:would you have a child for another woman" by Pencil.

Would you be ok with that or would you not want her to bear someone elses child?

By the way, this is a question based on how you would FEEL not whether you would allow/disallow it.

Answer 1

I wouldn't be happy with that idea. Looks like I'd have 9 months of taking care of someone and at the end of it someone else has the kid and I am just left with an overweight woman with stretchmarks who is likely to become depressed and has a massive v****a or a caesarian  scar.

Honestly, I can't see any reason to do that. I'd feel like it was time to find another spouse. When I am with a woman, gosh darnit I want some say over what happens in her uterus the same way I am sure she wants some say over what my p***s gets up to. Whole thing sounds extremely degrading, insulting and pointless.

That said, I have always pretty much been of the belief that if you can't have children yourself then remain childless or adopt. Plenty of young kids need a good home, and the world is overpopulated as it is.

Answer 2

I'd resent the stretchmarks and the distorted b*****s if it were my own kid.  Could you imagine how I'd feel if it were somebody else's?

Answer 3

Only if she lived with them for the 9 months.

Answer 4

Due to the fact that a woman might exhaust allot of energy and health during this process, i'de rather have her save it for our OWN kids..

However, if she didn't want any kids in her life, then it's gonna be a good idea to use what god gave her to help others, & it'll also help her realize what being a mother is all about..

Answer 5

I don't know to be honest.

I tried to imagine it - but theres something abuot it that tells me that is something to big to really get a handle on with out it being there in front of me.

Im not sure I'd be entirely comfortable with it, but that could be just due to the point I'm aware of just how life altering pregnancy alone can be. But then there are so many situations - there may be one where I may be more ok with it.

Then again I do have some unpleasant experience with an area that is roughly in the same area.  

Answer 6

if it was for a family member or close relative sweet as

but for a total stranger i wouldnt know how i would feel to be honest