How would you handle this...?

Question

we broke up but i cant stop thinking about her... its been 2.5 months we communicate with general messages. She leaves for rome in september and i want to surprise her and tell her that i don't want to be without her!! i am thinking if i do this that i will compose a letter on the plane so that my words don't get all mixed up.

tonight she sent em a message wanting to go to the bar before she leaves... should i go?

is this smart... should i chase after her??

Answer 1

Sure, go to the bar. See what she will say, maybe after the bar, she will stay. :)

You can't stop thinking of her after break up is normal, everyone do. Even break up with the one you don't love. You only chase after her if you love her and willing marry her, not because you miss her and thinking of her.  

Answer 2

Honey, I just told you, move on. Go have a drink with her if you must. But please do not chase her. It is not worth the heartache. If you were meant to be together, you would be together. Good luck though, no matter what you decide!  

Answer 3

Quit spinnin yer wheels big fella, it's over, move on, she has.

Answer 4

GO GO go go NOW!!!!