I been dating my fiancee now for over 3 years now. I have a child and he does too from a previous marriage. He's been divorced for 4 years now. My child is 5 and his child is 7 years old. His child's mother sees their child everyone other weekend because he has full custody and she can only keep him on certain weeks and weekends. I have spent time and known his child ever since we first started dating, but his mother has caused a lot trouble for us. She got pregnant after the year they both got divorced from a one night stand with some guy she doesn't even known, and didn't even want to see her own child and didn't for more than a year, until recently that she started being in the child's life. Every time the child comes back from the mother's house he tells me "my mama hates you" and "mama says your a b**CH", and the father would only say to me "i'm sorry about what he says, its his mother,thats the way she is." But to me it's not ok for him to be using language like that and the father doesnt seem to be correcting or saying something about this matter. I really dont know where i stand on this.. any advice.. would be appreciate it! thanx
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