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How would you have handled the situation?

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Hello again. I'm a lady & we go to diff universities in diff towns. My friend from h s started drifting away a couple years ago, then was ignoring a lot of my messages, said she lost her phone, then I called her, she ended the convo quickly, and didn't call back. That was 3 weeks ago. I know she has been on facebook at least several times since then. I decided to let the relationship go.

Well, her good bye party she invited me to (she's going to Spain for a semester), she never called back with additional info or anything. She said she was going to pick me up when she picked up someone else. When she didn't call back for over a 3 weeks, I rejected the invite on Facebook.

Well, yesterday about an hour before her party she calls me. I ignored the phone call, I was going clothes shopping w/my mom anyway for school. She left a message saying she was coming to pick up Andrew and was I coming. She called an additional two times. Then, texted me her parents' address and asked was I going to make it. I have yet to respond to any of the messages. I def was not going to her party. Since I thought she was ditching me, I didn't buy a gift or write the thing she wanted everyone to bring. I didn't know what I was supposed to wear or anything? Also, why did she assume I'd be ready to go when she didn't give me all the info or call me back. Alot, of my "friends" used to do this to me. I finally let them go.

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  1. Your actions sound reasonable to me.


  2. Your actions were just fine. She ignored you and avoided you for so long that you finally lost trust in your relationship and just let it go; that's respectable. Now that your "friend" is calling you again and asking where you are and what you're doing, you're unsure of how to respond or if you respond at all, to avoid being hurt—that is also respectable.

    I would've handled the situation the same way, except I would've talked to her about it face-to-face (by phone if I couldn't do it face-to-face) and asked her why she did this to me and why she's all the sudden trying to contact me again.

    Good luck honey, I hope everything goes okay for you.

    -Dee

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