How would you make yourself feel better after your marriage has just ended?

Question

Its been dead for a while. My husband begged me to go to counselling and for another change. I did both.

He is now seeing someone else & said that cousnelling made him grow up. He has now ended it (even thought I wanted to end it ages ago). I am still guttef however but am hurting becuase he is dating someone else whilst we are living togeher.

Unbenownst to him I am moving out at the end of the week and staying with a freind.

He will freak becuase Ihe needs me here to pay the huge mortgage we have and all the utilities.

I am hurting so badly. I know its for the best but how do I make myself feel good again?

Answer 1

dating is the last thing you need right now.  surround yourself with friends who love and support you.  it takes time to heal.  give yourself time.

God bless.

Answer 2

TIME   time heals wounds.

Don't worry about the morgage. he can move in his new sweetie.

Answer 3

Go out dating.

Answer 4

The least thing you need now is dating. Concentrate in you, invest in you by going to school/college. Become a better you and it can be done only if you focus in you, by you and for you. Do not expect outside help to take you where you want to be. You will be glad that you did and your self-esteem will increase.

Answer 5

By reminding yourself....you showed him and threw him for a loop.