How would you react if you found out your 15 year old daughter was sexually active?

Question

How would you react if you found out your 15 year old daughter was sexually active?

Answer 1

First I would wonder where I went wrong.

Then I would take her to the doctors for a medical check up and get her some help with s*x education too.

Answer 2

I would be pretty upset however if she is sexually active there is nothing you can do reverse what is already done. You need to take her to the doctor and have her tested for everything to begin with. Get her on the pill and be sure she using protection.

You need to sit down and have a nice long conversation with her. This is so serious and the consequences of sexual activity is irreversible and she needs to understand that.

There is a new tv show out on ABC Family called The Secret Life of the American Teenager, it is about a girl at 15 years old who gets pregnant. This is the first season and it has been on for a few weeks. I know it is a tv show but it does touch on some of the realities of teenage girls being pregnant. I know, I had several friends that got pregnant while in high school.  

Answer 3

Tell her your disappointed, but her health is important.  Get her on birth control & have a talk about why it's important to use condoms.  Don't be mad, it's too late now.  Just do what you can to educate her - don't yell at her or humuliate her.  

Answer 4

first of all sit her down, ask her if she used protection. If not get a pregnacy test,if positive well dang. However if she doesnt get pregnant tell her things like HIV and teen mums. Also ask who it was find the boy and chop his d**k off(joking.) Make sure u know where she goes now.

Answer 5

Id sit down right then and there with her and find out all the information I could without her being scared and not wanting to tell me

Answer 6

well id be very very angry even though I'm 16 just thinking about would enrage me

Answer 7

I imagine I would be concerned with the fact that most (if not all) 15 year olds are not emotionally equipped to deal with the emotions and the end result of regretting it. However, if she told me, I would be glad that she came to me and would need to talk with her about it and make sure that she is completely aware of stds and how you can get pregnant (even though she should know that before she does anything). Lastly I would want to take to to a gyno and get her some type of protection.

Answer 8

i be sruprised but  i be ok with it cause i know i had covered everything about s*x before she did have s*x( the good the bad the ugly and how to have safe s*x)

i would just ask  her if she is using protection and how much. maybe wht kind

Answer 9

I'd go:

With who?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

etc

Answer 10

1) Scared- that she is pregnant or has an std.

2) Guilt/Sadness/Disappointment

I would probably take her to a doctor in a couple of weeks, to get a blood test and tests for stds, vaginal health, etc. I would tell her that I'm very disappointed in what she did, and that she has betrayed the trust I had for her, and that she might not ever completely gain it back. I would definitely keep closer tabs on her. By 15 I probably would have already explained to her all of the information on s*x, stds, birth control, pregnancy, etc. She probably wouldn't be going out on unsupervised dates anymore, if she was before. I personally would not let it continue, as much as I could control it. Obviously I couldn't see her 24/7 but I would try my hardest.

All of this is based on my PERSONAL belief system and my religious viewpoint.  

Answer 11

Well to begin with , whatever you do, do not get mad or scream and yell at her. You need to talk about it, but you don't want to seem upset with her.  This will only push her away, and she wont feel comfortable talking to you about s*x and intimacy anymore. The only reason you would be allowed to be upset is because she didn't come to talk to you about it first.

Make sure you cover all the bases with her but you don't need to get into all the details because she's learned that in health class. Ask her the basics, (protection is obviously the big one) and review the risks with her.

She is 15. She's not a little girl anymore and you need to respect that. Don't mentally make a bigger deal out of it. She hasn't changed has she? Think before you act, I can tell you already have because you asked this question. :)

Answer 12

Thats just typical of women these days.  It wouln't surprise me at all.