I would like to know how the other married (or not) women out there would react if they found out their husband was having secret "friends". Like finding flirty text messages for a while from a girl that says, for example, she wants HIM for her birthday and HIM saying "I missed you"? Like while away from home visiting family, a while after seeing those messages, getting the phone bill with hours of phone conversation with that same girl? Some of which taking place right after having a "s**y" phone conversation with my husband? =) Some of which happening after telling me he had to leave, that he didn't like talking on the phone...and then talked 1 more hour with that girl?
Just wondering, he calls me crazy!!!!!!!
And how about, when that whole thing is over a couple months later, finding out that HE has been texting another girl non stop from work...on our shared cellphone? Finding out that it's a girl that called my home a couple weeks ago and that he swore he had never heard from her in soooo long. That it's a old friend that has a crush on him...and then oops, I get to see a message from her that says "I want you so bad"??
How would you have reacted to all this?
Let's be fair to him, we have been having a though year...with 2 babies and all!!! Though or not...is that an OK thing to do?
Both times he completely denied doing anything wrong, blamed me for everything, called me a *****, threatened to leave me...and he calls me crazy for asking him to stop his relationship with that "friend" that I never heard of after almost 5 years of being married.
He an idiot but I still love him.
What would you have done?
thanks
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