How would you react if you were trying to conceive for one year & three months, and still no pregnancy?

Question

How would you react if you were trying to conceive for one year & three months, and still no pregnancy?

Answer 1

heartbroken mad sad and all kinds of stuff but I try to remember that babies are a gift from God and he will find a way

Answer 2

I have been TTC for 22 months and 23 menstrual cycles. I'm now 21.  I'm thinking of starting ovulation tests next month if my husband and I have the money, and starting FertileAid For Women next month or in September-October and see if those help.  I get really depressed when I don't get pregnant.  

Answer 3

You need to take action and either go to a doctor or go the natural route by learning everything you can about your body.  I would definitely consider what I am doing right and what I might not be doing right (even though I wouldn't know it is not right).  If you aren't already, you should start temping and observing the changes in your cervical mucus.  You want to BD BEFORE you ovulate (so before your temp increases).  I can go on and on but I highly recommend you go to your library or buy the book "Taking charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler (not sure of her spelling).  You will learn a lot about your body and hopefully it'll help you to conceive.  There are also natural remedies like Vitex that will help up your chances of conception.  Goodluck and babydust to you!

Answer 4

It was a year before I got pregnant. It seemed like when we were trying, we wouldn't have any luck. Finally in December, we just stopped worrying about it, and it happened. Stressing over it will just make it that much harder to conceive. I was disappointed with every negative, and I wanted to be pregnant so bad that I think my body would show pregnancy symptoms just because that's what I wanted to happen.  

Answer 5

It is very upsetting and frustrating so I wouldn't be thrilled.  You should go see your OB and maybe see if something is causing you not to get pregnant.  Good Luck, hang in there!

Answer 6

I had been trying for a year and a half and I found out that I am pregnant a few weeks ago. Don't give up! Go to your doc and see what she/he has to say and see if they might recommend anything you might do or any tests you and your partner might go through to see if there is a problem. It always happens when you least expect it. I found out I was pregnant a week after I met with my doctor to discuss my options, so keep your head up it will happen in time :)

Answer 7

first off.

I know that you must be feeling bummed out. lousy. terrible, sad, upset, and finally mad.

I could mention lots or a few reason. trust me there are many.

maybe he used drugs in the past.

maybe he used to MASTER..the bater too much if you know what I mean.

maybe your trying too hard. drop down to maybe twice a week and let the sperm bank get lots of deposits and less withdrawals with blank checks

maybe you need to check out your hormones and your insides and see if you truly are fertile myrtle.

stop being on top. cause as you know..WHAT goes UP..Must COME down...meanwhile. if your on the bottom...it will work better.

enjoy s*x..and stop wanting to make a baby..alot more like:  Mission Impossible IV (minus the Tom Cruise) ..

who knows...maybe one day not too far away..little  clark t devlin jr will be there in no time.

give it another 6 months..and if your not pregnant by then and your absolutely positively sure that this is your mate for life, then go to the fertilization specialist quick.

remember this. it's gonna cost both of you an ARM AND A LEG..cause it aint cheap. your talking thousands..trust me. good luck

Answer 8

I would just go with the flow...sometimes when you try too hard it won't happen. Just go on with your life and it will happen eventually.