How would you react if you wher in this setuation?

Question

Okay so you fall for this guy that happens to be your older brothers freind he notices your infetuation with him and well then you two start flirting and then enventually consider dating. The relationship starts and well it seems to be going great then well some sh*t goes down and he doesn't want you anymore you both make a mutual decision to part ways. Your hurt you still have feelings for him but overtime withought seeing him and sometime with freinds you start to heal. Then abot a year later he decides to come to your house and does not even acknowledge you in anyway. Am i out of line to be upset mind you i am 16 and by law well i am a juvenile and well still under gaurdian ship by parents. Am i right to be upset or am i way overreacting?

Answer 1

Hon, you're overreacting...as you say, it's been a whole year...you don't even mention that you'd thought about him once during that time...  I would advise you to let it go...greet him as you would any other of your brothers friends and go your own way...  If you let him know you may still have feelings for him, it will just boost his ego and help lower yours...don't give him the satisfaction...  Find someone else...

Answer 2

yes you have a right to be upset. It's totally normal, i would be pissed and i would flip out for a good hour, and be back to normal. But i duno what i would do if i saw him again lol. but to answer your question. You are right to be upset.

Answer 3

Illiterate people annoy me.

Answer 4

how is it a mutual decision if he said he didnt want  u

he probably did that because he knew it would make u up set

anywayz who cares its been a year

Answer 5

He could have at least said hi. That was rude of him. You have a right to be annoyed at his lack of manners, but not upset. Find you another 16 year old and have fun with your life. Don't worry about that guy.  

Answer 6

i wouldnt blame you for being a little upset,,

but take your minute to be aggravated

& then move on,,

besides its been a year

what does he matter to you anymoree,

nothing.  

Answer 7

It does hurt when someone doesn't even acknowledge your presence and they once did.  I'd feel hurt, but forget him, he obviously isn't worth your time.  He could at least be civil and polite to you, especially if you said hi or something.

Answer 8

You have every right to feel upset, considering that this is someone whom you shared a history with, and might I add, he was more than a passing acquaintance (as you started flirting). Having that past makes it difficult to imagine that there aren't any remnants in his heart of missing what was once was, the same way you do.

It's possible that he's moved on, but that doesn't mean he has to deny your existence, especially since he still goes over your house, and like it or not, even if you are a juvenile, you are still the host of the house because you live there.

I just don't have any information about the "sh*t" that went down - this could be the reason for his reticence and why he isn't speaking with you. If the cause was as bad as I think it is, then you will need to respect his feelings on the matter, as he has to sort things out on his own, even as you feel as you are ready to deal with him once again - and he may not be at that same place you are. (Although a year seems like a long time, I have to say.)

I hope things work out for you, good luck.

Answer 9

Youre not out of line at all. First, when you are reunited with a person you had strong feelings for in the past, those feelings could start to come back. And all he is doing is ignoring, which im guessing is making you more upset. Hes acting like the juvenile for not even acknowledging you