How you deal with your son who never approves with your boyfriend?

Question

Are you going to leave your boyfriend? That he knows you love him and he is financially stable. We are both separated....

Answer 1

how old is your son?? if he is old enough accept his girl friend.. if he is small well there is not much you can do(small is even 14-15)

Answer 2

It's not easy for a son to just accept a man they never met and is there NEW father, I don't know if you ever went through this but it's very hard for some kids to accept it.

Answer 3

No if you truly love someone you don't leave him because someone else doesn't approve! Try taking him out with your boyfriend and having your boyfriend speak to him and let them have fun:) then your son will begin to like your boyfriend have your boyfriend give him gifts your son needs someone who is like a father to him. Goodluck!

Answer 4

Well ether tell him that he is going to have to get over it or find a new guy that your son likes!!!

Answer 5

A child never likes a parents boyfriend/girlfriend. I was the same way as a kid. But the boyfriend (bf) can earn the respect and acceptance of the child in time with patience. First, he will need to ignore the neg behavior of the child (no matter how bad it is). The boyfriend needs to give the child gifts, do NOT let the bf stay the night or sleep over. This will not build confidence and respect from the child. A child feels they are having to share the parent, they feel they are losing the parent to someone else. This can bring on the dislike. It is not really the person they dislike, it is the lose. But if this bf is not willing to do this for YOU or your CHILD, then move on.... your child is more important than any man.