Howcome sometimes he acts cold with me and other times over obsessed?

Question

Well whenever he's with his gf he completely changes, he becomes different, i feel that he becomes mean with me, cold, not caring at all. And when i realize that and start backing off, or whenever she's not around he gets over obsessed with me which actually tires me. Why does he do that?

Answer 1

He seems to be one who loves the one he's with.

I suggest that you shouldn't count on him as a good friend or lover.