Hubby wants more kids...?

Question

I have a son who will be 3 months old on the 19th and my husband keeps talking about wanting more kids and I don't know how I feel about it. My whole life I have always wanted two kids, one boy and one girl, but now that I have my son, I am torn. I don't know if he is so perfect I don't need another because he completes me, or if he is so perfect, why not have more perfect babies? LOL. Anyone felt like this before?

Answer 1

In the exact same situation. Have a girl though. She's perfect too...lol

Answer 2

You'll want more when your son gets a little older. You'll miss the baby phase where they can't walk or talk anything but little babbles. I know my mom did. That's why she was forced to stop at 4 kids LOL. Now she's trying to convince my dad for a 5th, my youngest brother is 8. Luckily we have aunt's and uncle's who are having babies now so my mom gets to baby sit them and be happy lol.

Answer 3

That's how you feel now because he's only 3 months old but down the road when he gets a little older, say 2 or 3 yrs. old, you may want to add a little sibling and i'm sure your son will appreciate that in the long run.  I think right now it's a little too early to be thinking about having another baby, I can't even imagine it.  I have 3 kids but mine are pretty spaced out in ages..my oldest being 8 yrs old, 5 yrs. old and 7 mths old and it's still hard.  Good luck and do whatever you feel is right!

Answer 4

maybe wait untill he is one. coz my teacher had a kid in august last year and then three months later she was pregnant with the next one. and is now due in october... and personally i think its too close.

i woudl have another one, only becasue all the kids i no that are only children, and spoilt and up themselves.. not saying your kid will be like that.. but it could happen.

so yeh maybe give it another few months.

xx

Answer 5

Your husband is in the honeymoon phase.  He loves your baby more than anything and he wants another.  Just tell him you aren't ready yet.  You need a little time off before another pregnancy.