Husband & His Bro Game?!!

Question

Ok so here is my little issue... My husband asked me to go to a game with him and I said sure. His brother calls him this morning saying that he wanted to go with him. (only 2 tix) Like an hour after they spoke my husband brought it up about how his brother wants to go. I really wanted to go but it seems to me like he would rather his bro go. I think he was telling me to maybe get me to say sure go with him kinda thing. What do you think?! I feel like if I go now, I will be there the whole time knowing that he would rather be with his brother and just didn't want to hurt my feelings.

Answer 1

Suggest that he give you both tickets and invite a girlfriend of yours (and smile VERY sweetly while you say it).  Then he could spend the time with his brother if that's what he wants to do...maybe they could power wash the house?  Or fix dinner?  

Answer 2

Well hon, sometimes brothers need a little alone time.Maybe his brother needs to talk to him or has no one else to go with?

You get your husband all the rest of the time.Why not plan something special the enxt night?Or surprise him when he gets home and tell him yuo missed him while he was gone?

It isn't that he wants to hurt your feelings hon, hemay feel sorry for his brother, especially if he doesn't know how bad you want to go.I do not think he would intentionally hurt you and if you think he would, why did you marry him?Think about that a little bit k?