I need some advice. I just dont know what to do anymore. Ok the situation is that all my husband cares about is him having fun. He acts like the world revolves around him. I am so fed up with it, Im starting to resent him.I have no problems with him doing things he enjoys, thats not the issue.The issue is thats all he does.He doesnt spend anytime with his family.We have a 15 month old boy and a 10 year old daughter(my step).And any freetime he has, hes out fishing, riding his bike, or whatever else he enjoys.Since our son was born, I have been out of the house once without the baby, and that was 2 hours for my birthday.His #1 priority is his fun and hobbies,not family.When I was pregnant, he was totally into it,but since my son was born, its all about him now.For example, one weekend I was so sick, everytime I stood up,I blacked out,I was sicker than a dog, and couldnt take care of our son, he was out having fun all weekend long.Thats all he does.And again, he can have fun, do things he enjoys,BUT, not every single minute of freetime he gets.Like I said since my son was born, I have been out once, and I really need a break,I have to get out of the house once in awhile, every Mom does for their own sanity. But he wont give me that option, he makes plans to go do what he wants.He spends absolutely no time with his children and does nothing for them, and its not like he financially supports us, i work too. He is 40 years old, a 40 year old kid is what he is, and Im fed up.I talk to him about it all the time, and nothing changes. We are having money troubles, and the other day needed diapers and food, well all the money we had, he blew it at the bar. So I had to borrow money to buy diapers.Im so fed up with it, so stressed, im about ready to snap. Im pretty much a single Mom, he does absolutely nothing to help with our son.Its his son just as much as mine.Its not like he makes plans for all of us to have fun, all of his plans do not include any of us. I need some advcie, what do I do?? How do I make him realize Im fed up, Im done, and Im not going to deal with this anymore, since talking to him doesnt work, what else??? I really need to get out of the house, even for a few hours, by myself, before i lose it.And I cant because hes never home.Im fed up with him blowing money we dont have on beer and his hobbies. Help!!! I do I get it through his head that Im fed up, and I had it, and life does not revolve around him???
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