Husband broke up with me but didnt divorce me?

Question

And now that I bring up divorce he starts referring to me as his first love and the breakup is really hitting him hard now. We are in love why must we break up?

We both have too much pride to tell the other I want you back.

Plus my lying ways dont help

I know everything was my fault i just want another chance.

Answer 1

You have too much pride to say I want you back but you bring up divorce?

Sounds like you are confused.  Why would you bring up divorce is that's not what you want to do?

And what have you lied about?  Sounds like you know what the issues are but are too stubborn to fix them.  You need to change that if you any relationship to work.

Answer 2

you sound immature. You sound like an uneducated drama queen. i pity him. you will waste his time. pleasse dont have children. you will divorce. I guarantee it. hate my answer but email me in 5 years and tell me you are still married.....

Answer 3

i dont get it. if he broke up with you doesnt that mean he divorced you since its your husband?

Answer 4

Go to a marriage counselor together and try to work through the things that are broken. You don't have to toss aside your pride to go to a couple of counseling sessions.