Husband got me p**s off with him!?

Question

Some one call from my daughter school and said that my daughter was upset because of some bully picking on her. At the time i was with my son at the dentist. So dad was still home at this time but didn't have a car. instead of him calling me he calls this female who he have been cheating on me in the pass with to take him to our daughter school.

I had a feeling that they were still seeing each other but i didn't have proof. I stop checking his text messages because he lock his phone.

The girl was sitting outside in her car looking down like she looking for something and his happy *** come walking out of the school. I ask him why out of everybody he know why he had to call this broad. he says that seeing his daughter was important and this female was the only one available(don't forget i'm his wife). so i go and talk to the other women and she is like talk to your husband he call me don't it look like i was in bed when he call. looking like she one pipe away from being a crack head. I will admitt that i am some what of a drama queen but she told me that their are people around and i should be queit. I'm like i don't care, you and my husband don't care about my feelings so why should i care about embarrasing us. He's like pulling on me to get in the car and she drives off. It almost felt like i was on cheaters. Now i feel like im wrong in some way. I know stupid right.

P.S.

I did check on my daughter and she was doing fine.

Answer 1

Honey, i would be beyond enraged. classic "cheater" man, defends his actions by making you out to be the bad guy.

this really cant be any kind of marriage if such disrespect is shown to you.

Answer 2

Ok that sh*t is taking it too far! Not only did he call his s***k to give him a ride, he took her to your DAUGHTER'S SCHOOL????? Great, so now he is involving your child!  He obviously has no respect for your marriage or your family. Dump his lying ***!

Answer 3

Why are you still with this man. He hiding things from you, he's seeing other woman behind your back. Enough, let him be with his girlfriend. Like he couldn't call a cab or ask a neighbor for a ride.

Answer 4

At this point the fact that he brought her up to your daughters school and is obviously showing no respect for you or your children....I'd take a break and consider a divorce.  

get yourself in counseling and go to a marriage counselor with him.  

Sounds like he is not done with this women and needs to make up his mind.  

Personally at this point I would be done.

Answer 5

you do have that right to be pissed off. honey what i can tell you is if that's what he wont's just say fine ( do you) take care of you and your children, and tell the jerk the day you stop worrying about him and another women is the day he needs to worry.

Answer 6

If you do not trust him, why are you still calling him your husband?

It's time to be calling him your ex husband.

Answer 7

why are u with him if he is cheating on u i really do not get that

Answer 8

You have NO reason to feel any guilt at all!!

Dump your loser husband.  He is a JERK!

Answer 9

For you to even think you were in the wrong indicates how easy it is for your husband to manipulate you. Your husband was totally wrong especially because he had cheated on her in the past. If you got angry and made a scene I feel bad for you but not for them, they deserved it. How dare he use going to your daughters school as an excuse for a ride to get there. Are there no taxis or buses in your town? Your husband is showing no remorse over his cheating in the past and for him to lock his phone indicates he is not working on gaining your trust. You are putting up way too much and he is treating you as a pushover. Good for you for standing your ground. Now you need to decide if you want to live with a man who is not worthy of your trust as he sounds totally immature and insensitive.  

Answer 10

You will be stupid if you stay with him a minute longer than you have to...If you still suspected that he was cheating with this loser wh*re woman....why are you still with him?  Yes it was EXTREMELY in bad taste for your husband to call this woman.....But instead of finding out why he would call her....start calling a lawyer.....

Answer 11

WTF? You need to put your husband in check... No way in h**l should he be communicating with the woman that he cheated on you with.

It smells like something else is going on!

Answer 12

So what exactly is your question.

You know apparently that he is a jerk and wrong and blah, blah, blah,  what is the question?

Answer 13

chuck him out. He's  a loser...