Husband speaks of another woman in his sleep!?

Question

Woke up at 3am to hear hubby talking about another woman, and how he thought she was pretty and missed her from work??

Answer 1

Lisa might be something completely innocent.  But if it is going to put your mind at ease to ask him about it, then I say do so.  Hopefully he has a great innocent answer and doesn't cause any doubt and/or problems with your trusting him.  Best of luck.

Answer 2

Just because i dream i'm playing with my cat or my dog don't mean that i'm getting freaky with them.

That is perfectly normal, it's just dreams, and if you make a big deal of it, you might find yourself without a husband

Answer 3

That dream could mean a million things. Maybe there is someone at work that he finds attractive and he had a dream about her. That doesnt neccessarily mean he is being unfaithful and it doesnt mean that he would ever be unfaithful. People have dreams about all sorts of stuff that they would never do in reality. You should tell him about hearing what he said, but he may not even remember the dream. Also there may not even be someone at work that he finds attractive. That dream could have been just some weird erotic dream about something that didnt even exist. People have those dreams sometimes. Don't put too much into it or get upset over nothing. Has he given you any reason "while awake" to make you think you have something to worry about? I'm sure everything is fine just talk to him about it.

have a good day!!

Answer 4

Ask him who she is and watch him squirm.

Answer 5

That may be God revealing to you that he is not being faithful. While you are on here asking us about this. Have you asked him what that was all about? Maybe a little more details could help.

Answer 6

Well at least he was sleeping so he has an alibi....lol

Seriously that is nothing to be alarmed about. Dreams are like repressed desires of the things that we wish we could have.

Answer 7

Best you don't worry about his subconscious - you're just asking for trouble.

Leave it alone.  

Answer 8

Go to his work first and see if this is even a real person.  Keep in mind he was asleep and dreaming.  I've dreamed I'm flying, but of course I can't...he may not even be dreaming of a real job or woman. If you confirm she's real then i'd confront him.  Just don't jump to conclusions, dreams are not consciousness and he may be attracted admittedly or unknowingly, but being attracted and acting on it are very different things. Don't look for trouble, but don't ignore possible warning signs either.  Find out if there's cause for concern then simply ask. Honesty is always the best policy.

Answer 9

why didn't you choke him to death while he was asleep.. i don't know what i would do... it would drive me.. insane... urrghhh.. mennn

Answer 10

dont freak out! could be an innocent thing. did u confront him about it?  just keep an eye out to his every move.

Answer 11

I wouldnt worry about that. Unless you notice that he is acting strangley. I talk in my sleep sometimes and I know I have freaked my ex boyfriends out but doesnt mean I was doing anything with anyone else.

Answer 12

People tell the truth when they are drunk and when they are sleeping.  Think about it

Answer 13

I'd question that one.  Don't let it go and pretend you didn't hear it.  If there's someone at work he's interested in, you should know about it.