Husband treated 2nd is okay, but wife not?

Question

So there was a question about the man being second best.

Why does it to me seem that this is okay???

To me more and more the reason a man is to be banks. Money and sperm banks.

That’s it.

Why?

Real life story,

A man, working, wife at home.

He came home and helped with the child. Played with kid and cooked together.

Took turns waking up to go take care of kid.

She never gave him s*x. She used her toys, they were easier and he wasn’t worth the work.

He did what he could for her. Gave her back rubs, did what he could. Battled depression she caused him when she was pregnant.

But he didn’t get anything back.

But this is okay?

Can you explain this to me?

No wonder why women hate it when I hold them to the same standards that they hold me to.

I believe that family comes first. Both wife and child, like this man did.

Now find me a woman who thinks the same. About her man.

Seems to me that both genders play down the other genders family duties wayyy tooo much.

Opinions?

Answer 1

Feel sooooo sorry for him...I would be gone long time ago...

Answer 2

STFU and go make me a sandwich...............

Answer 3

You're working off some weird stereotypes here.

Stereotype #1:  Women never want s*x, always have a headache.  How trite.  There are plenty of women right here in this forum that complain about wanting more s*x from their husbands.

Stereotype #2:  All women just sit at home eating bon bons once they're married while the husband goes off for his long day at work LOL!  There are plenty of us that work full time & then some.  This is an age of equality my friend.  A lot of us can actually command a higher salary than our husbands.

Also not ALL men get up to take care of the kids & give their wives back rubs.  How stupid.  I'm sure some of the mothers here can tell you that their husbands don't do $hit but make messes, throw their clothes all over the place like they have a live in maid, dump dishes in the sink, and ignore their wives & children in general.

Answer 4

i think the same. i think you should always remain polite to each other. never forget please and thank yous. doing things you dont always want to just to make the other happy, etc.  It takes both giving 100 percent of themselves to make it work.

hasn't worked for me yet either : )

Answer 5

I am not too sure there IS a question in this self-absorbed rant.

If you could clarify WTF you're ASKING, maybe we could give you constructive answers!

Answer 6

WTF was that rant about?