Husband wants some of his stuff every weekend.?

Question

Separated May 31, he lives with his mom. Possibly seeing a fat woman, denies it. I gave him back all of his stuff that I could find. He seemed disappointed. Every week, seems like he wants SOMETHING. I told him and his mom thats all his stuff I have... But today he called me (after a week exactly of seeing each other last to visit our son). He said he wanted his W2 for "tuition assistance". His mom makes 60k a year and is paying his tuition, he acted like he didnt know that (which he does). I said I cant find his W2. He thanked me very nicely. I asked to talk about the divorce, he never wants to discuss it. Said "I will listen, thats it". Doesnt he realize I gave all his stuff to his mom? Why does he still ask for stuff I dont have?

Answer 1

Well hes probably still getting used to the fact that he got kicked out of your guys place & he cant find his stuff. What difference does it make how much money his mother makes BTW?

Whats his side to this story?

Answer 2

Maybe he doesn't want out of the marriage after all.  Tell him you gave him all his things and there are  no more things  to give.  If he is giving you a run around about the divorce.  Contact a lawyer and ask what can be done,  to get you divorced as soon as possible.

Answer 3

Tell him to ask his employer for a duplicate copy. Quit answering his calls.

Answer 4

it sounds like he just wants a excuse to talk to you and this is how hes doing it and about the divorce maybe he doesnt want to talk about it because he doesnt want it  

Answer 5

It's not about the stuff, it is about you. He is not over you and wants to see you. He is now realizing he made a major mistake and is trying to work up the courage to tell you.

Answer 6

Honestly, you lost me when you said "possibly seeing a fat women"..goodness, you sound like a b*tch...I'm guessing your ex is a lucky man to be separated from you.

Answer 7

He is feeling regret and wants to see if you feel the same way, if you have made a decision then stick to it, because if you show him weakness he will try to warm you up, if you feel that there might be something there, then make him suffer a bit longer and let him know, how things are going to be, it's hard but you will be able to do it, be strong and Good Luck!

Answer 8

It seems that the does not want to let go of you and his son.

Answer 9

That is weird, he sounds like he is being a bad dad and husband if he left you guys like that.  Maybe he is just using that as an excuse to check up on things?