Over the years I have asked my husband for love and romance he won't give me that at an intimate level because he is angry with me. He says that my daughter's messy room is the problem and my not dealing with it is the reason for his anger. In fact, I do constantly encourage her to keep it neat and she is doing a pretty good job for a 15 year old. I talked to his x-wife and she said that he told her that in order to fix their relationship she could try by making his lunch for him everyday. She did for a year, but it didn't matter. I told him I want to talk about the details of a separation, but he said that he wants to stay together to reduce our carbon footprint. I know he has been to a lawyer for a consultation. He is a "what's me is mine" person, however, and I believe he does not want to have to split the marital assets that he is hiding from me. He says they are buried in the backyard. I would stay with him if there was intimacy between us, but I have little hope for that. I am going to let him know that. We are married 7 years and have children together. How much more time should I give this?
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