Husbands, have you ever thought less of your wife if she...?

Question

began to do more positions and take more initiative in the bedroom? Is it preferred that husbands take control while the wives "act like ladies" or is this taboo?

Answer 1

I know I'm not a guy here, but my husband loves it when I take more initiative. To him it shows him how much I truly want to be with him sexually and gives him that extra bit of satisfaction.

Answer 2

i am a women but i always take the initiative. i always have done we do 69, anal, webcam s*x, role play, loads of positions, dirty talk. my husband says there is nothing worse he could imagine than being with a woman that wasnt adventurous in s*x.

Answer 3

I love it when my wife tries new positions and take control in the bedroom, it is a real turn on

Answer 4

Ive heard men say they like when a woman initiates s*x.  They also like for women to tell them what they like, so by you wanting to try some new positions, you are telling him what you want.  Im sure if you are doing new things with your husband, he will appreciate it and not think bad of you. He may think different of you but it would be a good thing because he may feel like he discovered this other side in you, but its a good freaky side.  There are still some old fashion men out there but i'm sure you know your husband and what he can get away with.  I think you shouldnt hold back and just DO IT!  

Answer 5

go for it..... if it feels good do it!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

I'm not a husband, but men like different things.  They like unladylike behavior in the bedroom.  Don't worry about all that, just go for it.

Answer 7

With s*x, the sole issue is whether what your partner does brings pleasure (eg. the ends justifies the means)

Answer 8

its a good thing if the wife takes control sometimes.  keeps things interesting.

Answer 9

It's a fifty-fifty endeavor.  She has a much a stake in his jelly roll as he does in her turnover!  

Answer 10

You are not thought of less, you are thought of MORE!  bring something to the bedroom.  It takes two. Feel good about it, not bad.  Way to go!!

Answer 11

Good grief men dont want a lady in the bedroom at all !!

Answer 12

bring the heat in the bedroom if thats what you want..and if he likes it thats even better..s*x is important!

Answer 13

I would say that just the opposite would happen.  I would enjoy an aggressive woman in my bed.

Answer 14

I suspect there is a line.

I like it when my girl gets frisky and tries something a little new, but if she walked into the bedroom one night dressed in leather from head to toe holding a whip, I'd get the F*ck outta there.

So ease into it. Take a little initiative, push the envelope a bit, and find the limits slowly.

Answer 15

....I'm not anyone's actual legal husband right now sweetie....but if I was someone's husband right now?......surely we men in general would simply be overjoyed and highly appreciative of any great fabulous outcomes created by sensually attentive wives of course....are ya kiddin?

....think less of?...c'mon

It's a husbands dream to have a sensually well minded woman with him seemingly......what else?

Answer 16

it would depend.  if my spouse was "missionary mandy" and then all of the sudden she is pulling off moves that would put the girls from "The Bunny Ranch" to shame, i might wonder what the heck is going on.  assuming that no monkey business is happening, i would be happy to have someone like that.  why not?  this isn't the 50s, and nobody expects their wife to be June Cleaver.

Answer 17

My oh my times have changed and for the better! No complaints from any normal male should spout out of their egotistical mouths or their controlling behavior (if any women have spunk to put them in their place) A woman who can still act 'ladylike' and have that fire in where ever the s*x gets initiated and any position go for it. Thought less I would say no to that question. Taboo sounds like forbidden or not of these times. What a lot bunk that would be wouldn't it?

Answer 18

Nope.  I would think she is expressing her needs and love her for it.  Men do not need to be in charge despite what most people think.  So of us like it when our wife takes charge.  The same old thing all the time leads to a boring s*x life.  Who the h**l wants a boring s*x life?

Answer 19

Absolutely nothing wrong with a wife being aggressive in the bedroom.

Its a real turn on for a husband.

Answer 20

No, I have been trying to get my wife to take alittle bit of control in the bedroom.She's getting there,but not enough for me yet.

Answer 21

if u think ur husband cares less for u when u take initiative , then don't.. let him...

Answer 22

The perfect wife is one that is a lady in the parlor and a w***e in the bedroom.  don't jump my a** over this ask your dad how old that saying is.

Answer 23

It depends on your partner, but more guys than not would love their women to take control, use new positions, and otherwise show that she's enjoying the experience and wants him to also.

Only the more controlling guys will prefer she not do anything that he doesn't initiate. If you want to broaden your sexual horizons dear, go for it!

Answer 24

It's not 1940 dear...

Why would any men think any less of his wife for doing that? s*x is about pleasure for both partners, not just one.

She has the right to do what she enjoys in bed, and so does the man, that's what it's all about.

And I like my wife taking control, she likes it too so it's all good, sometimes I take control and she likes that too, it doesn't have to be the same everytime.  

Answer 25

Well I don't know about your husband but most men would be thrilled if their wives took the initiative in the bedroom more often.  Contrary to popular belief men really, really like it when women take control occasionally. Go ahead. I am sure you will receive a great response!