We live in Australia, my husband works in London but comes home every 6 to 8 weeks. He works from home for the time he is with us but then returns to the UK. It's been weird laterly and this one time my husband arrived from the airport and ran into the study to sign on for work after a 24 hour flight. I thought it was odd that he showed no interest in me. Night after night he worked but it was not like usual, he at least used to come out to have a cup of tea or a small chat from time to time for a break. This time he was home he didn't do that, when I walked into the office he would close the screen down as he was chatting to communicate with work. I noticed a females name, I asked who that was, he said his boss on one project. Night after night he did the same I'd go in the office to say hi he would switch who he was talking to on line. I accused him of being secretive and asked what was going on with his so called boss. He said nothing and argued with me. Still i recieved no attention from him. Then one night i walking in and saw his screen was flashing and said you should open it he did and here she was saying. "Hi Hun, I don't know what it is about you but I can only feel comfortable around you. In me seeing this he panicked. My knees gave way and I asked what the h**l was going on, the words didn't even leave my lips, he had replyed my wife is in the room and she thinks something is going on. She tryed to explain in a response that I saw saying "oh sorry Mrs C but ..... and he deleted the message. Then started on me how I have cost him his job bla bla. which I knew was untrue as he is very valued in his job and line of work ... But wouldn't allow me to talk about it for days as we had guests staying with us and I was in the wrong and he said he wouldn't forgive me ... I was devestated and I don't know what to think , He said he was taken aback as she never said anything like that to him before and has moved buildings in hs job and hasnt spoken to her since. Don't know if I'm making sence to you all but I can't get it out of my mind. What do you think???
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