Husbands that encourage their wives to be overly s**y ?

Question

I met this married couple at a party. His wife got drunk and danced with me while the husband took pics.

The photos make us look like 2 girls hooking up. Well ever since then her husband has been calling me to hang out with them. And his wife goes along with it...I think she does it to please her man.

When a husband encourages his wife to behave that way - is he just trying to satisfy his urge to cheat ? Instead of just cheating on his wife -he can use his wife as bait to make new female friends.

Is he a scum ?

Answer 1

he is using his wife for making s*x with other women, maybe threesome . That is bad for both of them, it is better u keep off from such ppl.

Answer 2

I would have to agree with the others on this question he is looking for a threesome and your his candidate.

Answer 3

When a husband and wife agree to you hanging out with them and the woman wants to dance with you while the husband films it , then one of three things is happening . One - they really like your company and you which is not likely in this day and age . Two the husband wants to have s*x with you while his wfe watches which could be , or three the wife wants to have s*x with you while the husband watches and films .

Two women having s*x while the husband watches is a big time fantasy for a lot of men and this is probably the case . I would stay away from it unless you feel the same way they do , then do what you think you should do

Answer 4

Nope he is not scum.

There is a good chance that his wife has expressed an interest in sleeping with another woman.  To a man this is a very erotic notion.  So he has just encouraged his wife to explore her curiosities.  There has probably been a lot of talk about a threesome and bringing in another woman.  Since you were ok with dancing with her, and him taking pictures, he's probably thinking that you are his opprotunity to get a threesome going.  After all, why would you dance with another woman if you were not having the same type of thoughts as his wife.

That's why there are phone calls and invitations, you've made it pretty clear to everyone that you have an attraction to his wife and might be open to a threesome, if your given enough time to get to know them and be comfortable with them.

Answer 5

He's looking for a threesome.  If you're not, tell him flat out, and ask him to stop calling.  

Answer 6

No I do not think so.  It sounds like him and his wife enjoy trying to turn on other women.  I do not know that I agree with it but in all honesty it sounds like they are going out and fulfilling there fantasies as a couple and that I think is great!!

Answer 7

He definitely sounds like someone to avoid.

How close are you to this girl? Can you talk to her about it? She may not know what he is doing is inappropriate or she may know it is wrong and think no one notices.

Obviously he does this and doesn't really care.

If she is a good friend be there for her...she may need someone strong to talk to.

If you don't really know her, I would consider distancing yourself from the weird situation

Answer 8

swingers  

Answer 9

yes he is, that's wrong

Answer 10

he & his wife wants you to join them in 3some

Answer 11

I think he's having a fantasy and imposed it on you.  Just tell him you're not interested, you don't play that way, and you feel a little set up by the situation and you'd appreciate if he'd stop being a pest and implying there was something going that's not there.  

He's not scum, but he's classless.

Answer 12

Perhaps they are swingers. Sometimes women are pressured by their partners to do things, but plenty of times they are completely okay with it, or even are the ones to suggest such to their man.

Don't automatically assume she was doing his bidding, unless you know that to be the case. There are plenty of couples out there that like to have fun with others...either just flirting and touching all the way to sexual activity.

As long as everyone is consenting and it's not happening behind someone's back, there's no issue with it.

Answer 13

He is looking for a three some and she is okay with it!

Answer 14

Yeah he's a scum ,but I guess he's trying to fulfill some kind of fantasy so I guess that's better than cheating, I would just stay away from both of them If I were you