Husbands would you oppose plastic surgery if your wife was not happy with her post-pregnancy figure?

Question

In most cases, pregnancy does not change a woman's body for the better. There are so many people against cosmetic procedures but what happens if your wife has this saggy overhanging belly that no amount of exercise can get rid of or her b*****s that were once full are now empty sacks of flesh? Would you still oppose plastic surgery or is the thought of a woman cosmetically enhanced still be a turn off?

Answer 1

I have been pregnant twice...do you think that I don't have that little baby bulge? Or my b*****s are a little saggier or the stretch marks that ravaged my stomach?

I have about 5 more lbs to lose until I get to my prepregnancy weight. I think that I look better then I ever have. I know that my body does not and never will look like I did before I had kids. But I never have had the nicest of body's until I did have kids. I actually got hips. And lost some of bulk I had built up when I was swimming competitively growing up. My baby buldge is a badge of honour. I was able to carry 2 children to full term plus a week. My first was 8.10 and my second was 10.3 and I was able to do that. My body carried those children.

Yeah some days I look down and think, I kind of hate it but I would never in a million years ever, ever think about doing something so drastic as plastic surgery.

Your body will always change. You need to start accepting what you do have and be happy with that.

Answer 2

only if im paying for it.  I love my wife thin or thick.  No need to change.

Answer 3

I would be okay with it if that is what my wife truly wanted.

Answer 4

I wouldnt not let her if its something she was sure she wanted to do and if it was for the right reasons but I wouldnt want her to do it because I woud love her no matter how she looked and I would make sure she knew that before she did it

Answer 5

I would welcome it.

Answer 6

if it is done with the right intention (augmentation, nip tuck etc) and wanting to get back into shape, then why not? i would let my wife do so if she couldn't handle the health side of things (lots of weight on shoulders and i have heard of women who gain rather large b*****s too big for them)

if it is done tastefully and for the right reasons, yes. but if it goes too far then it gets questionable

Answer 7

i married her for who she is and not for plastic surgery, my wife to me is my trophy wife and we have been married for 28years and 4 children. she goes and does exercise 5 days a week and this make her feel a lot better than plastic surgery would ever make her. she puts in the hard work and i acknowledge her on a daily basis that i love her for who she is

Answer 8

The only thing I want after my three kids is a breat lift. My husband is in full support and is setting money aside for me to take care of it. He is also currently paying for full ortho for me. I'm 35. He knows that if I feel good I will have fantastic confidence for myself and for us as a couple.

Answer 9

Surgery of any kind is very very serious. Your body can heal it self if your not in any big hurry. Even tho you have the surgery, your body can and will go back to what you have now if you don't exercise and keep your weight checked. It also depends on your age. The older we get the more difficult it is to maintain muscle and the sagging stomach and belly is due to muscle lax.

I don't think you would be a turn off but you might not be the same to yourself in your own view point. Please do think seriously before doing this, its surgery and its painful and if you can find another solution, please do.