Hy i need help from u guys, my doughter is only 13 years old and she is too lazy,she liez a lot, dont care

Question

about school , bad lenguage, very mean to us, i need to know if there is a place or boot camp in san diego or los angeles can dicipline my dougther because she is, wait out of hands, thanks i'll be waithing whit unswers thanks.

Answer 1

Sorry you raised her to be like that!  get some parent training or go to parenting classes before it's too late!  

Answer 2

She is your daughter so why don't you punish her?  If you had done something about the problem a long time ago, you would not have to be dealing with it now.

You have to train up a child not wait until they are 13 and throw up you hands and want someone else to correct the mistakes you made.

Get that bad language out of her mouth.  No one should use bad language especially a 13 year old.  When we were young and said something we were not allowed t say, we got our mounts washed out with soap.

Now that she is 13 and strong, and not well behaved, you migh need help in washing her mouth out.  Someone to hold her whle you did it.  She needs to know that bad language is not exceptable.

You are the parent, if you tell her to do something, see to it that she does it every time.

Give her chores to do every day and if she does not do them, take something away from her.     A Cell phone, computer, privilages, ground her, anything but do something.

If you catch her in a lie, punish her.  You have the right, you are the parent and are responsible for her.   I know these things didn't  just start.  I'm sure she has done all of these thing for years and you did nothing to stop her.

It's not to late to undo these bad habits you let her have for so long.  But you have to be firm,

you have to be consistant and you must carry out punishment.

Good luck,  

Answer 3

talk to her. how would u feel if  were her and got sent to boot camp?

Answer 4

I would suggest you call family services for the county you live in and see what they have to offer.  I'm sure they have some programs that she can be placed into to get the help she needs.  But, know that she will be very mad and angry with you for doing this.  She will yell that you don't love her and you are mean and that she hates you.  She means it at the time, but will change as she gets more into the programs and understands why you are doing this............after all, it's for her own good and because you love her.  Good luck.  I'm sure you can find the number to call in the phone book or perhaps the school counselor has a list of numbers you can call for help.