Hymen, penetration failure?

Question

I've married for 3 weeks and we have been trying for hymen penetration but in vain. I checked the doctor but I have a normal hymen. I want to know if there is a fine technique that can guide us how to break the hymen gently. Thanks for helping me in advance.

Answer 1

at first it is normal to fell tight you have to lead you bf p***s and push it in. you will feel a little pain but don't stop. try to break it will foreplay first

Answer 2

There is an important question, "Dose the erection of your husband adequate?" if so you can do the following trusting that you are manually breaking your hymen but not in vain.

relax and use lube in your private part and let him (or you) gently feel around the hole and manage to insert the index finger inside the v****a , after all the hymen got many holes or one big hole, after insertion try bending the finger and withdraw it out so cutting in the hymen

repeat in several directions clockwise for example until cutting it all

you must bear the pain induced through the process. sometimes the finger is wrapped with clean dressing  medical textile before the insertion put it is more painful

Answer 3

Your husband certainly knows that he is "your first" due to your unsuccessful attempts. So, what's the significance now that HE does it ? Let the doctor anesthetize you and cut it. Then it just leaves the fun for you/your husband.