Hypothetical question, your marriage is on the outs, you have been lied to way too much. ?

Question

Say you have been betrayed more than once and your spouse has never ever come clean about any of the lies. You know you're done with the marriage, but an anonymous source has all kinds of information which would confirm all of your doubts. Do you get those answers from this source and if you do, do you even bother bringing them up to the wife.

I have been in this situation before and no matter how much evidence is there the lies still continue.

Should I just let it go, will confirming my questions make it worse or help me move on and get over this mess ?

Answer 1

If you cannot trust this person, why are you still there??

Life is way too short to live in uncertainty.

Answer 2

If you don't find out the truth you will always wonder. Find out, then start dealing with it. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 3

That is a really hard decision. I was one of those people who thought I needed to know every detail from when my husband cheated on me. And I did, I got every little tiny thing. Sometimes I am glad it all got out in the open, and other times I can't get the vivid images of my husband and that woman out of my head. Knowing what happened, how it happened, EVERYTHING that happened, it's alright sometimes, but other times it absolutely kills me. But I made that decision because I still love my husband and I needed to know so I could make the right decision about staying or leaving. It all depends on you and what you think you are going to do and how much you really think you can handle knowing.

Good luck, and God Bless.

Answer 4

Confronting her would likly be a big waste of time and like you said she's just going to tell you more lies. Just move on and cross your fingers you don't fall for another liar.