I'M SCARED HELP PLZ HELP?

Question

I'M REALLY SCARED THAT I AM GOING TO GET KIDNAPPED WHEN I'M OLDER WHEN I'M ON MY OWN PLZ HELP ME PLZ

Answer 1

When I saw SILENCE OF THE LAMBS, I had a real fear for my daughter.  She's very sweet and kind, and she would fall for someone in "distress" like a guy with a cast on his arm as the poor girl in that film did.  All you can do is be careful.  It's a shame that our world is so dangerous and perverse at times.  

If I were you, I'd take a course in self defense--one that includes physical self defense as well as instruction on situations, behavior and people to avoid.  For instance, there are many precautions you can take to keep you safer.  Such a program would at least instill a little self confidence and keep you from feeling so vulnerable.  Also, I'm sure there are plenty of good books out there that address the subject.  

If your fears are seriously interfering with your living your life then you might also want to consider counseling of some sort, especially if you're becoming uncharacteristically paranoid or agoraphobic.  

The main thing is that you become proactive and address your fears rather than letting them keep you from living a rich full life.  Good luck.        

Answer 2

CALM DOWN!!!!! I think you will be just fine. Be safe and do smart things. You should see a couselour if you are this scared!

Answer 3

you are not gonna get kidnapped don't worry.  People don't like kidnapping adults thats why its called KIDnapping. ;]

Answer 4

People don't usually get kidnapped passed the age of 10.  Just make sure you make good decisions and don't put yourself in a situation where you are in danger.  Don't be scared.

Answer 5

Don't think about getting Kidnapped....If you research your new neighborhood then you should be fine.

But on a REALLLL serious note you need to see a doctor

Answer 6

my daughter is 16 and has the same fear. i tell her to always be aware of her surroundings and to be with people she trusts.there will always be times when you are alone, but to build your confidence,i would say for you to take some self defence classes,learn how to protect yourself so you wont feel like a victim. i got my daughter a little canister of mace to put on her keychain,and when she leaves work at night she always has it in her hand. you didnt say how old you are,but if you are young, find an adult you trust to talk to about your fears.

Answer 7

worry about it when your older.

Answer 8

you need to see a shrink, mate

or get committed, that might help you out even more

your paranoia is unhealthy and repulsive.

Answer 9

I'll kidnap you and you'll be fine. No worries ;)