I'M SOO SICK OF BEING CALLED NAMES ALL THE TIME!?

Question

My 11 year old brothers call me a w***e and my mom when she gets mad at me for doing something wrong calls me a *****. I also get called lazy, stupid, pimply, friendless... I'm DONE! What tricks can I do that will help me keep my mind off of that and rise above it all? Thanks so much.

Answer 1

Since your brother is younger than you, you have the power to set the tone. It doesn't always work, but its worth a try. Try being really nice to your brother, and acticg how you wish he treated him. Try that for a week or two, and then he will start to pick up on it, and start acting the same way back with you.

Just Give it a try.

A Diary Would be a good idea, but make sure it locks or something...

Best Of Luck

Answer 2

Diary is not a bad idea. It's a way to pour it all out. It won't help you to ignore it, but it will help you to overcome it.

Just know that only you can define yourself. You are the only one who can truly make yourself into the true you. If you let what they call you get to you, you are allowing yourself to be that.

Answer 3

Whenever your brother calls you a w***e, be strong and tell him i'm not or you can just ignore. Don't pay attention to what they tell you, no matter what, think that you're unique and precious because every one of us is :)

You can e-mail me if you want me as a friend.

Good luck xx

Answer 4

ignore them, don't give them the reaction they want.

Answer 5

wow ok just try to brush it off your shoulder and if your mom calls you that then talk to you dad or another family member like a aunt or uncle or even a cousin i had almsot the same problem and i talked to my older sister (shes like 7 years older)  and just tell them you need to get it off your chest. i felt sooo much better after that. i hope this helps ☻

Answer 6

diary! ofcourse! write all your thoughts and let it all out. but you should never let any name calling get to you, just ignore it. youre better than that. it is actually illegal for someone to make you feel inferior, but ofcouse that is your family. its life. dont let anything they say phase you. you could also start drawing or writing poems or listen to music or read a book. and they are 11, not yet old enough to be mature. kids are always name calling, but they dont really mean it, how could they, they are way too young to even know why they are saying that. and for your mom, just ignore her. she loves you, she just gets mad sometimes and doesnt realize what she is doing. as long as you are sure of yourself, its all good. you have already rose above it all by thinking of ways to forget about it. good luck! i hope i helped! :D

Answer 7

just ignore them. the more upset about it you get, the more pleasure they have out of calling you names

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Answer 8

Stupid, lazy, pimply friendless w***e

Answer 9

I know how you feel.My brother picks on me all the time and he barely gets yelled at. And the minute I say something (which is rarely) I get in HUGE trouble. To get my mind off it I draw and sing.

Answer 10

my brother does the same thing to me. and he never gets in trouble and i cannot stand it.

Answer 11

Awww i'm sorry to hear that.Just try talking to your mother after the fight,when things have calmed down.

Answer 12

write in a diary or punch them

Answer 13

d**n I get the same **** from my siblings, no joke. I've tried everything but I'm still an angry and volatile young man who starts all the conflicts in the family.



I'd just ignore it. If your parents won't listen then don't bother with them.

Answer 14

Wow, he calls you a w***e. As far as your little brother goes find if you can't beat him up then try to think of good insults to throw at him any time he feels like getting brave. As for your mother, I would talk to her whebn she is in a good mood, and in a calm respectful manner tell her how calling you a B***h really hurts your feelings. Finally good for you to try to rise above there insults and if that works then good for you, although if it dose'nt sometimes you have to dish it right back out.