I'm 13 and I pregnant! And I need help!?

Question

My Boyfriend whats nothing to do with me or the baby! What do I do?

Answer 1

There are a lot of couples who can not have children and would be very happy with adopting yours. You should think of this option since you are so young.

Just know that some years down the line the child may come looking for you to ask why you gave him/her up for adoption. This can be easily explained as to your age and how you could not really care for an infant yourself when you were not an adult yet.

As for the boyfriend well you do not need him at all. He apparently only wanted to use you for s*x and now that he's got that he doesn't want to deal with the after effects.

Please from now on use protection with anyone you are with. You are much too young to destroy your life and the life of a child that did not ask to be born.  

Answer 2

That was a BIG mistake of yours. And you're only 13? Of course your boyfriend will want nothing with you and the baby.

You will have to tell your parents, there's no other way. And don't look into an abortion.

Abortion is a sin.

So is s*x before marriage, especially if you're only 13.

I know it'll be hard, but you have to fix your mistakes, and your parents can take care of the baby too. But you better get child support from the father of your child, because it's his baby too.

  

Answer 3

You idiot. Go tell your parents.

Answer 4

1. First you need to tell your parents no matter how hard that may be for you.

2. You and your parents need to find a solution. Either get an abortion, have the child and take care of it yourself, or maybe give it up for adoption after having it.

3. You need to make sure that your boyfriend's parents know about the baby.

4. You should probably dump your boyfriend. If he cared about you enough to have s*x but not enough after to help you through your tough times then he isn't a true great guy.

5. I think you should watch some shows on thing like this that happen. Maybe you have heard of the show The Secret Life of the American Teenager. You should probably watch that to get ideas on how to handel the situation.

Good luck

Katie

Answer 5

The real question is...What do you want to do? Abortion has strong emotional effects on a person that could scar you for the rest of your life. The reality is that a baby IS NOT the worse thing in the world. Babies are great! but they do need alot of love and care....so you should probably tell your parents and see if they can help you out. If you have more questions my email is: [e-mail]

good luck

Answer 6

First of all does your parents know? That's the first thing you need to do. You have to tell your parents everything that is going on so they can help you make the right decision for you. It's your body but your body is still a baby. If you are afraid of what they are going to do don't. Yes, they are going to be upset and mad. But they still love you and in order to help you they have to know. There is so many things that can be done. So just tell them. Good luck.

Answer 7

I think you should tell your parents asap so you can get prenatal care. You did the deed so you must have knew the chances. I dont agree with abortion becuase the baby deserves a life. No you are not a loser.  

Answer 8

tell your parents and let them handle the situation

Answer 9

well you could have a abortion or have it adopted but tell your parents and if they support you enough and say you can keep it then keep it don't worry about your boyfriend he is probably a waste of space

Answer 10

I think you're lying.  Can't you kids find something better to lie about.  It's always the same. I'm 13 and I'm pregnant.   Very original.   Find someone to adopt your baby, loser.

Answer 11

Get an abortion or have the baby yourself?

Answer 12

you have to tell your parents and trust their judgment. they'll help you figure it all out and you'll be fine. Good luck and best wishes.

Answer 13

go to your parents and look into adoption.

Answer 14

DO NOT GET AN ABORTION!! tell your parents and go on from there. and be sure to watch the secret life of the american teenager