I'm 13 and i want to have s*x...should i wait or go for it?

Question

I'm a virgin but my boyfriend isnt...i'm 13 and he's 14...we have been goin out for 3 months and he asked me was i ready to have s*x...i want to say yes..but i'm not really sure..what should i do?

Answer 1

Save it, you only get to be a virgin once, and guys respect you for it, don't give it away at this age because trust me you will regret it later

Answer 2

People are right save it...you can only be a virgin once. 13 is quite a young age and you wont be proud of yourself after you've done it (i knw)

just wait it out...im 13 i didnt and i regret it...!

think about the consequences after wat if you wind up pregnant?

Answer 3

talk to your parents...write your feelings down in ur diary.

pray...yes praying does help. think

WHAT IF I DID GET PREGNANT

if u could handle getting pregnant u r ready if not...i dont think you are..

14 1/2 virgin

Answer 4

stay a virgin...its great more guys will want you for it...its like playing hard to get.....IM NOT A VIRGIN AND I WISH I WAS                          

good luck making the right decision

Answer 5

No one ever regrets waiting. s*x changes everything and not in a good way. Honestly, he shouldn't even be asking you, please wait, it will be worth it, and its something you can never take back.

Answer 6

no no no.....wait please...you will regret it...if you have hormones going crazy...go release yourself you will not regret it.

Answer 7

Please don't do it. you're 13 and have a lot of growing up to do.  You'll regret it if you do.

Answer 8

If you are questioning yourself then usually it means that you are not ready. I wouldn't do a thing until I knew I was completely comfortable with the situation

Answer 9

Wait! Virginity is like the most valuable thing and speaking from experience, I'd still be a virgin if I could. Guys find that a prize posession. So save yourself. Especially since you've only been together for three months! And you're only 13! I lost my virginity when I was 15 and it was a stupid thing to do! I wish I never did it! Once you give it up, especially at a young age, he'll leave. No matter what he says, he'll leave. Because boys his age only want some action, not a lifetime commitment. If he pressures you, then he's not the one for you. A real man waits. And having s*x risks you getting pregnant or with an STD. I know I'm probably sounding like an annoying mom, but I'm sick of seeing young girls pregnant or being treating like trash. Save yourself girl!

Answer 10

Wait until you're seventeen. I was thirteen when a seventeen year old friend of my big sister's told me to wait until I was seventeen and it was the smartest thing I ever did.