I'm 13 and...?

Question

my 2bff's ditched me for each other and they never include me in anything and they always lie to me this summer all they do is hang out with each other and in ther aim buddy info she's counting down how many days till they go to cedar point! im rele upset and kinda jelous ''/ what can i do with my new friends thats exciting to make them kinda jelous... i know i know 2wrongs dont make a right whatever lol i rele want to just have fun to pleazz help... any ideas?

Answer 1

omg.

being left out is the story of my life.

anyways, what I did was just not say anything until I got really tired of it and pretty much told them how I was feeling.  Because if you don't eventually tell your friends how your feeling, they aren't gonna get it and they'll keep leaving you out.  Don't make new friends to make them jealous, that would be mean to your new friends because they are being used, and your old friends probably wouldn't care.  So basically, just tell them how you're feeling and whatever happens from there, will happen.

Answer 2

If they aren't your friends anymore, then why pay attention to them. If they are pointedly trying to force you out of their group then it will probably just give them satisfaction seeing you trying to impress them.

Other than that, I suggest doing something they've never done before. Like playing a new game or doing something else fun... Like paintball. I really have no idea, so please seriously consider what I wrote above.

Answer 3

well if u are friends then just stop!

cuz yams are awesome@!!

tell them yams are de bomb

BOOOOOOOOOOOM! yams explode!

Answer 4

forget them and go have fun with your new friends, not being with them may make them jealous enough, and it will also give them a hint that theyre being completely ignorant to you, we all make "friends" like that in our lives and when they ignore you, you should just return the favor.

Answer 5

I can totally understand your frustration, especially because I've been there so many times before. You're absolutely right in the fact that being as they say "the third wheel" is never fun especiall when they take off. The worst thing you could do is try to make them jealous, because this will only cause drama and lots of problems that might make you end up as a loner and then you won't have ANY fun. just don't try to make them jealous. Also, stop looking at their AIM profiles if it bothers you! You don't stick your hand in fire if it burns, right? It's common sense, silly. I would actually try to find other friends of your who you can get together with, and just enjoy yourself with them. don't think about the other girls, because that will only make you more jealous. If you have siblings hang out with them and suggest fun vacation spots for your family to go to this summer, if it helps you. Just relax and try to stretch out to more friends this summer. Ignore the girls, because they are just being plain rude right now and you wouldn't want anything to do with them anyway, right?

If you REALLY wanted to start hanging out with them again I would advise you to tell both of them (separately) how you feel. Tell them you feel left out and explain that you want to do something fun with them as well.If they are rude to you then just leave it, but maybe they don't know they're leaving you out.

Just give it some time, and things may get better. Hope this helps! =]

Answer 6

well, just have fun with your new friends doing whatever it is you like and don't worry about your friends that are ignoring you. If you're having fun, you probably won't think about it as much.

Answer 7

geta bf and do nuthin but hang out with him x]

or two new friends and do nuthin but hang with them.

or dress like rlly hot and act all social with everyone. and those are my ideas :D!....hope it helps =]

p.s- i know how it feels...middle school really sucks. my "freinds" did that to me too. :[

Answer 8

Have a party. Go shopping together. Introduce them to your old friends. Take pictures and post them for them to see!

Answer 9

Go to a really cool theme park or restaurant or something without them or have a massive party and don't invite them but talk about it heaps in front of them! Don't let them get you down too much...they sound pretty mean. You can get way better friends than them, and if you concentrate on just having fun with other people they'll eventually get over their little game when they see you're happy with other people! Just to be safe you should probably steal their boyfriends:) hahaha just kidding.

Answer 10

This question resulted in uber lulz.

Answer 11

Tell them that you have 2 extra tickets to their favorite concert (or theme park, movie watever) even if you don't really.

Answer 12

sounds like what one of my friends did to me.

everytime she had a new friend i was pushed aside.

then when her new friend pushed her aside, she came crawling back to me.

dont worry about them, when they have fight the person theyre going to come running to is YOU!

and when they do, say it straight out "what so now im good enough to spend time with?" then they will learn not to ditch people.

make some new and even better friends trust me, you are alot better without people like that in your life.

Answer 13

LOL GO OUT EVERYDAY WIT YOUR FRIENDS N PUT IT ON UR AIM N STUFF N BE LIKE OMG IM SOO EXCITEDD N THEN WHEN YOU COME BAK BE LKE OH IT WAS SOO MUCH FUN BEST DAY

LMAO =]

Answer 14

cut the catty c**p drama.... suck it up, dump your frumpy dumpy friends and get new ones, i mean they obviously don't like you!

Answer 15

Just don't worry about them. If they want to act dumb and not include you them just ignore them and do you. You said you want to have fun so, do everthing that you love and enjoy with your new friends.

Answer 16

just all over ur buddie info just put cant wait to waterpark or cedar point or w/e

and if they wanna hang out just be like sorry my friends haveing a hotel party today or tommorow and  i need my sleep

or find a new friend and brag bout her idk

Answer 17

let it go and have fun doing anything and everything you have alot of time ahead..... so he wasnt mr right ....so just be yourself and hang out with friends watching movies, taking walks, bowling, mini golf, go to the museums... I m sure you will find something to amuse you there and maybe start a collection of something.....I collect marbles in old jars  and old greeting cards I put these in an album.  My friend loves the colour blue so she collects anything blue and my daughter collects fairy statues (the smaller the better) My mum collects coins and porcelain dolls.  Just whatever you do love yourself and have fun by yourself and let whatever will be to be.  Lol and good luck from Sandy.

PS  Im 48 and I been there done that so dont waste your precious time spend it with someone you know deserves you.

Answer 18

make new friends and make it clear you have new friends and that will really make them jealous because then your not wanting to hang out with your old ones

Answer 19

Apparently they're not your friends. Make some new friends.

Answer 20

There's not much you can do to make them jealous.

Just act like it doesn't bother you.

Answer 21

Go make new friends and act like your having a blast and if they "over hear you" be like that sounds like such a blast and start laughing(loud so they can hear you).

Answer 22

oh kay first off. if there doing that then there not your friends. and revenge is good. j/k but jealousy is strong so do something like going to cedar point on the same day with your new friends and if you see them make them see you having fun without them. or just hang out with your new friends a lot. like go to the movies and mall and swimming. aways fun and if you see them they could get jealous. but what ever it is make sure it does not go over board. but have fun.

Answer 23

Have u a birthday coming up?

Have a party and dont invite them :)

Answer 24

i dunno... are you hot? wanna hook up?

Answer 25

okay im 15 and ive been in this situation before so i know how you feel. but honestly, all you can do is tell them. be like "you guys never seem to include me in anything,..do i annoy you or something?" and if you guys get into a fight over you asking, they are bad friends. that has happened to me many times. you need good friends that wont ditch you. you will find friends in unexpected places (:  but in the mean time, ask your other friends to hang out and get to know them better. maybe when your off hanging out with your new friends, your other two 'bff's' will realize what a good friend you were and how much they miss you. if not, they werent friends you would want anyway. Good luck(:

Answer 26

tell them u know whats going on

Answer 27

well i don't know if making them jealous would be the best idea so i would say talk to them about how u feel. and tell them why u are upset and ask why they are avoiding you and or not including you in activities