I'm 14, had s*x last night and i'm sort of freaking out! ?

Question

Okay, my boyfriend and I are both 14 and last night we were hanging out and we both had the idea of having s*x. It hurt alot. we finished and what not and everything was fine. Then this morning i woke up and i had this excruciating pain down there, like something had been torn or stapped. I almost couldnt help but to scream.

I called my boyfriend and asked if noticed anything and he said no, and that if it was really bothing me- i sould go to the doc. but that means my mom woud have to take me.

do you kno what could be wrong with me!?!?

Answer 1

you lost your "virginity" your maidenhead or hymen was torn  thats why it hurts and stings so much

Answer 2

you're fine. you are just streched out a bit. same thing happened to me.

you'll be okay.

s*x at your age really wasnt the smartest idea either.

it would of been better to wait.

but, cant undo whats already been done.

Answer 3

well, when u have s*x for the first time your hymen is torn/ your "cherry pops", also ur v****a is probably not use to having something shoved up there so its sore from being stretched.  i would give it a week or so, then go to the doctor if it is still really bothering u.  

Answer 4

You just tore your hymen. The thin layer of skin in your v****a. It'll be uncomfortable for a few days, but try to sit in a cold bath. That might numb it.

Answer 5

if you tore something go to one of those clinics with a cab or something just a suggestion

Answer 6

Your hymen got popped. The pain should go away in a couple of days.

Answer 7

I wanna Have s*x!

Answer 8

Ask your Mom to take you to the Doctor for a made up reason if you must; but your best help right now would be an older female in your family. I know it sounds like the last thing you want to do but I think you should bite the bullet and tell your Mom.  Tell her how you feel and about the pain.

Laws differ in different states but usually the Doctor has to keep this sort of thing confidential.  You do need medical care right now.  Especially if you didn't use a condom You will be at risk for sexually transmitted  disease like HIV AIDS, syphilis and the most common side effect to s*x between a guy and a girl, pregnancy.  There is a morning after pill that can handle the pregnancy part, and some sexually transmitted disease can be prevented with antibiotics. (not HIV/AIDS it is caused by a virus) Insist that your lover be tested for S.T.D.'s,and HIV/AIDS.

s*x can seem like a great thing to do to pass the time, it's fun, it feels great in the moment; but has a lot of consequences.  That is why in most cultures it it reserved for coupled adults who are ready to financially and emotionally raise children.  If you haven't had s*x education start asking questions, not from your friends but you doctor, school nurse or counselor.  If you are determined to have s*x, insist that you be safe!  Always use a condom.  Some schools give them out in the health office.  I believe you can get them and medical attention for free from Planned Parenthood too.

One last thing, talking about s*x online can make you seem like an easy target to sexual predators. Change your ID and your nickname, get new email and get rid of anything attached to this user-name and start fresh. No need to leave yourself open to being victimized.  Take care of yourself, Make sure you get that pain checked out by a Doctor and I hope no harm will come to you from leaving yourself vulnerable online.

Answer 9

You just tore your hymen. that's what happens when you lose your virginity. it's like a little skin that forms a thin screen across your v****a. That's what's hurting you dear. You'll be fine in a day or two. It happens to every girl their first time. You don't have to tell anyone and there's no need to see a doctor. :)