I'm 14 and want to start using Birth Control but?

Question

I'm afraid of what my mother would say

how do i ask her without her feeling her little girl is gone ?

Answer 1

i told my mom that i had very painful cramps.

if that doesnt work birth control also helps clear up your face:)

Answer 2

1st of all, why do u need a ''birth control''pill?

2nd, i think ur too young for this..  

Answer 3

why  do you need it...you shouldnt be having s*x at 14

Answer 4

If her little girl is asking that question. Her little girl is already gone.

Answer 5

I think it's awesome that you want to talk to your mom about birth control!  But don't be surprised if she asks you why you want to start using it.  Is it because you are or plan to be sexually active?  Is it because you have acne?  Or maybe menstraul cramps?  Just be ready to answer her question(s) honestly.  Keeping open communication with her will make her feel more "prepared" for this step in your life and keeping her included with help as well. :)  Good luck!  

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Answer 6

dont do it just for s*x. your under age and your partener can go to jail.

wait until your old enough. wish i had

Answer 7

she could freak or she may not but you shouldnt need birth control im 14 too and s******g around with people you shouldnt even be doing we hate girls that do that and its gross only have it if you actually need it but be ready for bad things to happen next

Answer 8

You could tell her that you needed it to regulate your periods. I hope you realise that the age of consent is 16 though

Answer 9

I think you should say that your periods are bothering you.

Answer 10

Firstly hun, have a proper think on why you want the pill...is it so you can have s*x? Im not saying dont do it, as its your body and you'll do as you want anyway, however much advise you get given. Im 21 and lost my virginity at 16,  my 18 year old sister lost hers at 15, and she now hates s*x,and its ruined her confidence,  as she had such a bad experience with her 1st boyfriend. If you do choose to have underage s*x, be careful!! make sure he wears a condom, you dont want to catch any infections that could stop you having children later in life! Talk to your mum, tell hr your having feelings that you want to become a woman, let her know that you still love her, and shes not going to loos you, she may understand more than you think...afterall....she was a teenager once! anyway, Take care!!

Answer 11

Go to the doctor for irregular periods, or very very painful periods. They might prescribe you birth control.