I'm 14 years old. :/ And my mom FLIPS when i ask to buy a thong?

Question

I'm 14 years old. And everytime I ask my mom to buy me a thong, she FLIPS. All i want is ONE for these white pants that i haven't worn yet because of pantylines. She thinks it's too "inaproppriate" but she has no problem letting me wear low-cut shirts, short skirts, etc.

I've tried explaining to her that I only want them so i won't have panty-lines not because I want to seem "cool" or "older" or show it off. She just doesn't see my point. :/

Answer 1

you can buy a thong on your own, understand that you are her little girl and you are growing up, then men enjoy seeing that [it is noticeable], now if its for the white pants, get one that isant too obvious.  this is a good time for you also to start washing your own laundry so that she doesnt throw it away, my dad was the same way- i bought my own and hid them

Answer 2

for those one white pants... why dont you just wear no underwear? ALMOST the same thing as a thong.

I do it sometimes.

Answer 3

buy it yourself, with your own money and don't tell her

Answer 4

well in the first place

why do you have white pants??

when everyone knows boys are perverted

Answer 5

just buy it n dont let her kno

Answer 6

just go to the mall or whatever with your frieds and buy it there, and dont tell her about it.

Answer 7

same here ... i think she thinks that I'm going to like walk around and be like yoo look i gota thong .. ha no.. i  went to the mall with my friends and i bought one their and then she saw it and screamed at me ans stuff ... but she got over it cuz she has a whole bunch and my sister uses them to ... so it wasnt that much if a deal... but they are uncomfterble my god...

Answer 8

i have a few and im 15, i dont see the big deal. most of the time i just dont wear underwear. when i do, it's boyshorts. they make seamless ones so they dont have pantylines:)

soo comfy.

11th grade, just turned 15.

Answer 9

Jaymee says she is 29 but cant even spell.....I dont know what you can do if she doesnt allow it.  You can try getting one without her knowing it but you are running the risk of her FLIPPING out even more if she finds it.  I personally dont see the problem with getting one.  Its not like other people are going to be seeing your underwear.  At least I hope not.

Answer 10

my mom wouldnt buy me one either.

my nanny got me one as a gag gift and i wore it but it was big.

then i changed dance schools and you could wear underwear there.

so i made here buy one for there but we didnt buy one we bought 3 haa.

but idk if you are in highschool.

that might make you seem better.

just maybe make your mom buy and let you wear the sluttest outfit possible then ask y you can wear that and not a thong that noone can see.

or wear your jeans with no undies. and tell your mom you gave up.

or just cut some old underwear so that they can fit up your cheeks.

good luck

ps i am your age too.

10th grade and still 14 haaaaa

EDIT:

jaymee.

you cant even feel them after 5 minutes or less.

and  some people wear them when they are 13.

and when i got mine my mom said i can wear it with jeans only. so i wore it to school. she didnt know.

and now like 2 months later she doesnt care when i wear them.

but if nothing i said works maybe tell your mom you dont want lines. or just buy one or wear floss. literaly.

or steal one of your moms. i know she has one.

ha

Answer 11

lmao, well,... rofl, I'm sorry, LOL, um... I'm 29 and I don't even own a thong, refuse to wear them.  I don't need a piece of clothing giving me a constantly wedgy... uh...

But yeah, a thong is atupe of clothing, that in MY opinion was designed for... adults.   NOT commonly worn by 14 year old, panty lines be damned

Answer 12

commando

Answer 13

Buy one, and don't tell her :)

she'll get over it.

or if you don't wanna do that ... and you wanna wear your white pants. Go Cammando, its seriously not that mad, i actually like it better, ahah.

Answer 14

Does it really matter if you have a vpl? If your Mum is giving you the chance to wear short skirts and low cut tops then it sounds as if she is being very reasonable. If she doesnt want you wearing underwear that she feels is innapropriate then you should respect her opinion.

Answer 15

ur not even old enough maybe like 1 pair just 4 that pear of jeans and only that pear!!!

Answer 16

well you are only 14 so that would be normal for your mother to not want buy you one, but if your telling the truth about why you want i odnt see why she would have a problem with it. just go to the mall with one of your friends or something and buy one, hide it where your mom wont find it. or if your  at the mall or clothing store with her tell her your going to go look at something and go and get a thong and buy it then put it in your purse.

Answer 17

Dont wear white pants OR wear white panties beneath them.  There is no valid point to a 14 year old wanting, needing, owning or wearing a thong, ever.

I agree with your mother completely.  When you take on the responsibility of feeding that little @ss of yours (that you seem in such a hurry to show off), then you can dress it how you like.  

Just like I tell my girls, as long as the food budget comes out of my bank account, that @ss is mine and I like it covered!

Answer 18

Your mom is freaking out because you don't realize, comprehend, understand, or even think you're that young. She remembers when she was that young. She remembers when her friends were, and people she knew. She's also seen kids your age, and possibly younger doing crazy, dumb *** stuff.

When she hears "thong" she really hears "mom, I'm ready for s*x"... Then, she probably has TONS of things going through her head.

Ask her WHEN she thinks a thong is appropriate, and suffer from there. lol. :P :)

Cheer up. You've made it thus far without one. You don't NEED one. Just indulge in your mother. You'll be around, more than likely, till the day she dies, but she really only gets you for about a third or less of your life.

Remember, she still sees you as her little baby. Her little munchkin head. :P

As for her letting you wear the other revealing clothing, ask her why? That'd be interesting.