I'm 15 I really haven't hit puberty?

Question

Hi, I turned 15 on July 19th, 2008

my voice is not deep at all

if i tilt my head up theen you see a little adams apple, not noticeable

I have a decent amount of pubic hair

You can't really see my armpit hair (maybe a little is noticeable)

I think im a little overwieght, im not totally obese i might be a couple pounds overwieght

My p***s hasnt really changed, its about 2 inches alone

and about 4 inches erect

I have random erections

i didnt and i wont ask my dad wen he hit puberty because its too embarissing, and we were talking and he asked me about girls and stuff, and he said he was having s*x at 13 (that was in the 70's lol)

This is EXTREMELY embarissing, because all of my friends have deep voices, and they say stuff like "haha your balls havent dropped yet" and its really bugging me

Please give me a clue about whats going on!

Answer 1

well you have hair so you're getting there.

Answer 2

It may be embarrassing, but if you can't talk to your dad, who can you talk to?

Either way, you've still got a couple years before the whole lack of puberty thing is considered abnormal, although it sounds like you're already going through (or have gone through) puberty if you can see your adam's apple, your hair is growing in, and you've reached spermarchy (the Developmental term for the first time your erections actually lead to the sticky stuff).

It's entirely possible that as a grown man, your voice may not be really deep, you may not be totally hairy, and you may not have Ron Jeremy's p***s (but even after puberty you might still have some growing to do). Maybe you're already there, but just not exactly the same as your friends.

And if you can't talk to your dad, try to find a doctor that you can ask. Or a therapist.

Answer 3

The fact that you have pubic hair tells us that you have started puberty.  You just haven't progressed as far or as quickly as you'd like, but we can't control that.

You're not alone. I was in 10th grade with no pubes, no nothing, and was about the same size as you. I know how you feel. Late 10th grade it all got started for me - slowly. As a senior in high school I was 5'4" tall and weighed 95 pounds at graduation. I had pubes but no armpit hair.

The next year I grew 7". I'm 46 now and still slim at 150 lbs, but I'm 5'11". Everything else finished up completely normal, except for very little pit hair. Dude, it turned out fine for me, and I have no doubt it'll be ok for you.

If you don't see any changes in the next year or so and you're still worried, then go see your doctor. He can give you something to jump-start your puberty cycle. I didn't have this done myself, but I have had friends who had it done for their sons.  I also encourage you to try again to talk to your dad.  I think he'll make you feel better about your situation.

Answer 4

Don't worry your time will come. There are late developers and early developers and average. Anyways your case is perfectly normal.  

Answer 5

This bugs me, too.     The testicles drop normally at birth, and are in the s*****m.    They don't "drop" at puberty, they grow some and will be hanging lower, but they don't "drop."

You have begun puberty, but are going rather slowly at the present.    This can change quickly or gradually--- puberty is a process that takes years to complete, some guys still grow and change into their early 20's.

It's tough being a late bloomer, try to be patient.   Puberty is a difficult time for every guy--everyone's worried about normal growth and development.    And your peers can be very cruel, teasing you about it.

You will get through this, just try to relax and be patient.

The best of luck to you

Answer 6

There isn't anything you can do about it. I say u should just start working out and get stronger so when u do hit puberty u will be huge and have good work out habits.  

Answer 7

wow your just like dillian sprouse!

Answer 8

rofl sucks dude i had a 5 inch d**k at 10.... u just really really undeveloped....

Answer 9

Just because your voice isn't deep, doesn't mean you haven't hit puberty yet. You have already started puberty, which is why you have pubic hair and armpit hair. And as for your p***s, 4 inches may be the hand you were dealt, though you still have a bit of time left to grow if you are going to. In regards to your friend's comments about your balls dropping, lower balls aren't directly linked to the pitch of your voice, it's just perceived that way because they generally drop at around the same time your voice deepens, as well as the growth of hair and p***s length.

And if you think you're behind your dad in puberty when he was your age, that's not necessarily true either since you are perfectly capable of having s*x. As long as you are able to have erections, you are able to have s*x, so there's not really any correlation there.

If you have any other questions though, feel free to message me.

Answer 10

Hi

You are already in puberty as you can m********e and ejaculate. You have pubic hair.

Don't worry about your voice this will change very soon.

You are likely to overtake your friends also, you are still in puberty till you are 19 so don't worry.

Regards

Andy

Answer 11

you'll be in puberty from now until about 17, your voice will deepen with time maybe within this next year, everything you mentioned sound about right...everything is heading in the right direction for you...don't worry to much about it

Answer 12

okay i'm not a guy but i do know a lot(:

i know that everybody hits it at a different age & when you least expect it.

its also can be genetic.... like random example : girls normally start their periods at 7th grade my mom didn't start till she was 18(: so don't worry. don't tell your friends this unless you guys are close cuz its too personal. and believe me just work out a little get healthier it works. ohh p.s dont m********e that much that really effects you in a bad way later on in life