I'm 15 and I've been with my bf for 2 years but should I have s*x with him? help me... please!?

Question

I'm 15 and I've been with my bf for 2 years and we've been talking about s*x and he thinks we should but I don't no. So should I or shouldn't I. I kinda want to but I have a feeling that I will carry a guilt because I have. Could you help me please

Answer 1

He's ready and you're  not...back to  5 Palmer avenue  for him I'm afraid.

Answer 2

DON'T. You will have a lot of guilt later on in life. At least wait until your closer to 18.

Answer 3

If you don't want to do it, and you feel you aren't ready then DON'T. You don't want to regret it, you can't get your virginity back once you've lost it. Explain to your boyfriend you love him, but you aren't ready yet. If he tries to persuade you or blackmail you (it sounds like he wouldn't, since you've been with him for 2 years, but just incase...) like saying "if you loved me you'd do it" then say back "if you really loved and cared more about me then about having s*x you wouldn't try to force me"

DO NOT do it if you aren't ready.

Answer 4

this is what i did



i had to really look deep down and side of me and ask myself are u ready to do this..i was lucky that the guy i 1st did it with is an okay friend but he trun out to an *** hole about the hole thing...just make sure your ready for this i lost it when i was 16 but to me it just matters if your ready and he kept asking me are u sure if you love him and he loves you and if u dont want to he'll wait tell your ready

Answer 5

Only if you're ready to do it then you'll know.

Answer 6

You are way to young to have s*x. I think you always have to take into account what happens if you get pregnant? Protection isn't a guarantee that you'll not get pregnant! I think you need to worry about schooling, college, and a job afterwards. When you are financially stable and can afford the chance to have a child then I say "GO FOR IT". Until then, it's not worth it. I think what happens if your parents found out as well? They wouldn't be happy with you...the guilt from that could last a very very long time....DON"T HAVE s*x YET! wait 8-9 years...

Answer 7

You are just 15.....So I don't think so..If you do that you will really feel guilt..Everybody will be ashamed of you.Do not do that...Wait till ur older...18+...Ok.Its for ur own good.

Answer 8

dont listen to the above wait till your ready ;) good luck sadly im 13 im not a vgn

Answer 9

ARE YOU SERIOUS? ARE YOU STUPID? WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU? your 15! the legal age is 18!!! little girl!!! no!!! do you want to ruin your future?  

Answer 10

Never do anything you do not want to do.  

Answer 11

NO! wait. please for the sake of god. wait.  dont let him tell you should.  

Answer 12

NO.  You are only fifteen and if you have s*x now I can assure you that you will regret it.  You have to wait until you are sure and you don't sound sure by a long shot!  Do NOT let your boyfriend pressure you into it.

Answer 13

I think you answered  yourself that question. SInce you might just do it and regret it.

Don't rush yourself. You are young and don't let anyone pressure you.

Not to scare you or anything but you also run the risk of getting pregnant, even with protection. So if you start having s*x with your boyfriend there is also the chance of getting pregnant.

Answer 14

no wayyyyyy don't do it, wait and when you become 18 go for him and marry. thanx

Answer 15

wait a while longer... til you're like 18 at least and ready for a child and marriage

Answer 16

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

You  should  not  have  s*x  with  your  boy friend.  I  can  promise  you  that  you  will  live  to  regret  it.  Don't  go  off  to  be  alone  with  him  and  make  out.  Focus  on  getting  an  education  at  this  time  or  you  will  be  pregnant  before  you  can  graduate.  Then  your  boy friend  will  resent  you.  s*x  will  ruin  your  r/s  with  him  if  you  let  him  persuade  you  to  do  this.  He  thinks  he  has  to  pressure  you  to  have  s*x  with  him  (to  be  a  man  around  his  guy  friends).  You  may  not  believe  it,  but  guys  get  together  and  brag  to  each  other  about  their  sexual  conquests.  Don't  do  it.

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Answer 17

I'm sorry but in today's society everyone thinks its ok to start sleeping around at a young age. My personal opinion is you should definitely wait until your 18 or almost 18. More or less its better to wait until your married because you dont know where you and your bf are going to be 5 years from now. Besides do you really want to have s*x and end up with the possibility of getting pregnant. So theres condoms and theres birth control but like each on says its not 100 % i know people who have used both and still ended up with a kid. Until your sure this is the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with and he feels the same and you are both older and more mature, id wait it out.

Answer 18

just make sure youre not forced into doing it, wether its by him, or yourself. be SURE that youre ready for it.

Answer 19

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