I'm 15 and I have no friends?

Question

ok i am 15 and i have no friends at all. i've had no friends since i was like 12. i tried to make friends before but nothing works so i just like gave up because nothing works anyway. i dont know what the h**l is wrong with me because EVERYONE has friends. i mean i dont see anyone at my school who is alone all the time like me. uhmm what am i supposed to do? i feel helpless, and no dont give me those stupid "just be yourself" responses because i've tried everything

Answer 1

at least you dont have enemies

Answer 2

i know how u feel..i use 2 lika miss popularity with every1 n every1 loved me but as soon as i got 2 high skool i became a loner.yeah it sux sumtimes but w/e u dont need the world lol if u wana make friends then just talkk 2 random people i bet ull make atleast 1 friend that way..if all else fails just get a dog lol

Answer 3

omg me too, yeah im like the only loner at school. i asked this question once and people kept sayin "be yourself"

Answer 4

pick a nice person a talk to them, ask their phone#, call them, ask them go movie or shopping together.

Answer 5

aww thats sad

uhh just start talking to people that go to your school

like hey whats up?

how was your summer

or use music as an in friend a person with the same music intrest as you to be friend with some one

Answer 6

join a sport or club that you TRULY like, such as i joined a paintball team with complete strangers that i WOULD NEVER NEVER EVER talk to in a normal day but once we all shared our love for the sport we are brothers now. so join something you like to do and the people that enjoy it too will respect you for it and become your friends.

Hint: it aint going to happen overnight, give it some time

Answer 7

well if youve tried being yourself and its not working maybe you should change? i dont know

definitely join sports or extra curricular activities

that would help you make new friends

and if theres ever a time in some of your classes when you have to have a partner, take that chance to try and see if you can warm up to them or something

Answer 8

Join a sport.

Start to learn something...like a guitar (for example) so you can talk to others about your new interest.

Join a church group.

Join a yoga class.

ect.

Get involved.

Answer 9

I know how it is dude. Ive suffered from social anxiety through out highschool. You just gotta be really talkative. When your sitting in class talk to people around you. One thing leads to another and eventually youll have friends. First whats going to happen is if you guys get along or have similar intrests youll become friends maybe only in class. Then you want to move it on and be like want to hangout after school? and then when you hangout out of school thats when you can become way closer. Best thing to have is a few good best friends. But you might just get a lot of friends that arnt really close to you.

But whatever you do dont be like me man. In a lot of my classes I used to just sit there and not talk to anyone unless they talked to me or I already knew them because I was too scared to talk to them. Or start a conversation. Right now my best friend got sent away and I feel like i have no friends at all because all the friends I have are what i call fake friends. There just there you know. And after highschool you'll never see them again. I dont like people like that. I like really good friends. Anyways take care and good luck.

Answer 10

I can relate....except that I am 49 and have no friends!  Seriously, I work at a place with about 25 other ladies (a medical office).  You'd think we WERE back in high school.  They are all in cliques and they don't seem interested in letting anyone else in....just like teen age girls in high school.  It really isn't you...or me....it is the way teen mentality operates.  It is a really difficult thing to deal with, as we have to go to these places every day and stay there for hours with these people.  I wish I had an answer.  Unfortunately, we can be as nice and genuine as we can be...but unless people are willing to give us a chance to be friends, there isn't much else we can do.  It is too bad people have to be sooo immature, isn't it?  The only thing I can suggest is to keep an eye out for someone else who looks like they are left too.  Take care, friend.  :)  

Answer 11

well you can talk to me anytime i will be your friend

Answer 12

well theres probably something wrong with u. so find out what it is and fix it. not trying to be mean. just trying to help.

Answer 13

BBBBBBBe YYYYYYYYYYyourself

Answer 14

I'll be your friend!!!!!!! If you want to make friends, talk to some1 and talk about things that they like and what they do. pluss, you could join a sport, play an instrement, or join a club. good luck, i hope i helped! :D