I'm 15 and maybe pregnant what should I do?

Question

I'm 15 years old and i think i'm pregnant i haven't taken a test yet to make sure but if i am what should i do????

Answer 1

uhhhh take the test and then...if u r pregnant then go to the guy whos it is and tell him...o and first tell your parents...THEY CAN HELP

Answer 2

First off you have to get rid of the maybe

Go take a test.

If your not than your good.

Just maybe be safer in the future

If you are you need to tell your parents or someone because you will have to start getting the proper medical care. And decisions will need to be made on the future for you and the possible baby.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Take the test  first...if you are positive...talk to your mom, grandmom, friends mom....Talk to some one who  will stand by you.  Know you mom may be disappointed, but in the end  she will stick by you.  If not  find another adult with whom you can confide.  You will be okay... you are not the first and surely won't be the last!  Good Luck!

Answer 4

wat you should do is to tell your parent or guardian. it may be hard to do but in the long run its the best thing to do because if you are pregnant and you wait to long your stomach could get bigger and the water could burst and then they will figure out and be eveen more pissed than if you tell someone now because you shouldnt have sunk that low in the first place. and dont have an abortion because it is like killing someone and dont give the baby up for adoption because just think about what the child is going to go threw so givve it to your parents or an adult that is very close to you or your parents.

Answer 5

Take the test and find out before you start freaking.

First thing you should have done was keep your legs crossed but since you didn't care and figured you were ready to be a parent here are your options:  

1. Get married and raise that child right and smarter than you.

2. If you can't provide a good home put the child up for adoption, there are thousands of great, loving , couples who can't have kids and desperately wish they could.  

3. Get an abortion.  Throw away the opportunity you have to help a childless couple or be a mom and give the rest of your life to that child.

Do what is right for the child, it isn't about you any longer...and remember if its not a baby then you aren't pregnant.  May you be blessed and good luck.  Think before you choose to give in to physical wants, it could change your life forever.

Answer 6

First take a test. Next talk to the young man who assisted you with this;  next set up a date and time for the young man and yourself to meet with your parents and then his parents and then jointly. This will not be fun, as both sets of parents will be upset and disappointed. You have options, Abortion which at your age would be the first thing to hhighly consider; next adoption, then keeping the child. Your body is very young to produce a child, you also need to have a physical form the doctor. Whatever route you choose, you need to be on birth control s*x is not  a game.

Answer 7

What are you waiting for go to the drug store and get a test ASAP. If you're not you can stop worrying. If you are go talk to your parent and the boy who help make this happen. In the future please remember this little saying and live by it. No Glove...No Love and you will never have to go through this again. Good Luck! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Answer 8

well talk you your parents about it, then you need to figure out who the father is if you already didn't know. and if you love the person your with consider keeping? and if you have a supportive family you could also keep it. but if you don't have a supportive family or boyfriend, then you may want to consider adoption. but you first need to really figure out if you are definitely pregnant

Answer 9

You should test. Talk to the the daddy to be and tell your parents. They may be mad but they will help you. If you are not pregnant you should take birth control and use condoms. Or just not have s*x at all. Best of luck to you

Answer 10

dont freak out talk to your best friend and the person you pregnant from if you have a sister older talk to her and take a test !

stay in school for as long as you can and DONT have an abortion

Answer 11

You need to take a pregnancy test.  What you really need to remember is that you are young, you have plenty of time to do adult things. If you aren't old enough to raise a child then you shouldn't be having s*x. Sometimes even if you are using protection you can get pregnant. Talk to your parents. It will be hard but they can help you!

Good luck dear!!

Answer 12

Get it "taken care of" you're too young to have a kid. You still have many years a head of you before you should settle down.  

Answer 13

go to the health dept. and take a preg test. if you are preg ask about WIC and Medicade unless ur parents are loaded with money. fill for medicade then find an OBGYN  you will have reg monthly visits there so find a doc u like. and of course tell your parents. no way of sneaking around it.

Answer 14

You can start buying baby stuff it is very expensive.  

Answer 15

Theres no point in throwing nasty comments at 15 year old girls who are pregnant we are all here to help and give advise to please be nice!!...

Maybe you should start by taking a pregnancy test if you havent got the money for one you can go to your GP (doctor) and he/she can do a test on you for free and completely confidential (they will not tell your parents)....

When you find out if you are or not that's when to decide what to do...Maybe try sitting one of your parents down and telling them, maybe they can give you a bit of support....

Answer 16

Well this is a hard situation for teens, but then again it is becoming to be so common. Firstly, you should talk to the guy that you had sexual intercourse with. If he is willing to take part of the child's life. Tell your parents, let them know that you think you might be pregnant and plan something out, like perhaps place the child into adoption or you might take care of the baby. But be sure to make a wise decision, and good luck.

Answer 17

if u can't tell ur parents, tell one of ur trusted relatives or teachers, and the best thing to do is to go to see a doctor because he s an expert and he is the only one who has more than an option which you can choose from, but don't try to get rid of the baby because this is against human nature and also you might harm urself for sure

Answer 18

ignore the horrible animals! A statement for all those pig ignorant so called humans, a child needs help and all you want to do is give abuse and turn a blind eye and not offer any help because you would rather ignore whats happenning this is LIFE! you should do a test 1st and if its positive you should find someone you trust and that you can talk to this may or may not be your parents but find someone. you can not do it on your own. think long and hard about what you want out of life and whether you should have the child or consider adoption or even abortion. It isnt as bad as it may seem and everything happens for a reason. If you would like to talk more the add me as a friend. Good luck in what ever you choose to do!

Answer 19

Find out FOR SURE before your imagination gets the better of you. Sometimes periods can be missed or late if your stressed or your diet has changed.

If you ARE pregnant speak to your mom about your options. You should be more careful dont end up like those trashy girls on the Maury Povich show.

Answer 20

First talk with your parents about your situation.  It may not be the most enjoyable talk you have with them, but it will be one of the most important.  They should be able to give you good advice about what you need to do.  If you are pregant, as your pregnancy advances, you will need their help.  

Next, if you missed your period, go to the pharmacy and get a testing kit.  Some tests will only work after you missed a period.  Ask the pharmacist for advice as to which is most accurate in your situation.  You should also want to talk with your family doctor.  There are certain tests that he/she will want to do, beyond checking for pregnancy, such as checking for certain diseases.

Depending on the test results, you need to talk with the guy.  Figure out how you feel about the situation you actually are in.  Do you want to continue having s*x?  What are you going to do to prevent future pregnancies, etc.?  Some guys, when confronted with the idea that they could be a daddy in a little under a year, will take off and, unless you have a class together, you will never see them again.  Some guys will stick with you and try to be supportive of you.  Some guys will try to convince you to get an abortion, even if illegal in your area.  A lot of guys are somewhere in between.

Remember, it is your body.  You have to make the decisions about what you are going to do with it.  Your parents, your boyfriend, your doctor and others may give their advice, but you have to make the decision about your life and deal with the consquences.

Answer 21

Obviously, take a test, thats not too hard.

And if you are, tell your parents, and talk to them

dont spend time worrying if they will be mad at you,

because they might be at first but they want whats best

for you and that will overrule you getting in trouble

Your life will be a little more important then your punishment

After that, talk to the dad, the dads parents

and go from there...

But don't hide it, because soon enough they will find out

and being honest is a lot better than being busted

for lying.

But hang in there, it happens to girls all the time.

:)

Answer 22

Talk to your mom about it. Don't make any decision quickly.

Whatever you do, don't rely on your best friend for advice cause chances are their advice wouldn't be any better than yours. You need adult help on this one, and not just a doctor who will make money off you.

Answer 23

Buy a pregnancy test, take it, and if it comes out positive, tell your parent(s)/guardian(s), They need to know if you are pregnant. I know its hard, but it's something you can't run from.

Answer 24

Go take a test, either an at home test or a blood test at a Planned Parenthood clinic.

If you ARE pregnant, tell the guy who got you pregnant...if you even know who he is.

Discuss what you'll be doing, seeing as not a lot of teen fathers will stay with their girlfriends...

Then sit your parents down and tell them.

If you are NOT pregnant, get some damned protection and a s*x ed. class. Preferably one that does not scream ABSTINENCE IS THE ANSWER to everything.

Answer 25

well go to a trusted adult

if you can't support the baby then give it up for adoption when it comes

just take a test to be sure

but do NOT i repeat do NOT have an abortion

Answer 26

Here are the questions youa houls ask yourself.....

1 - Do you have a job?

2 - how will ya parents feel?

3 - what about your boyfriend, or friend, how does he feel?

4 - where will you live?

5 - is your room big enough for u and a baby?

6 - are you ready for the resposibility that comes with it?

7 - should you have an abortion, if so why, if not why?

8 - do you have money for the abortion?

My suggestion don't do it to yourself ESPECIALLY if you're askign strangers What should YOU do!!!!!

Answer 27

Talk to your parents and take the test. If it's negative remember the feeling you have right now. It should be effective birth control until you're ready to be a parent.

Answer 28

takethe test and if u come out pregnant u need to tell your parents the baby daddy nd finnd out what u want to do with the baby...either keep it give it up for adoption or abortion..but you have to stay STORNGG! thats the number one thing just be strong  

Answer 29

why are oyu having s*x at 15 and if you are why werent u protected?  Ok well its already bad but if I were you I would find some sorta planned parenthood and get a free test done and if you are they can help you make your choice from there.  

Answer 30

What you should do is not listen to the preachy biblical creeps in the post and start with a test. Don't trust those home kits. Go to a Diagnostics Centre and get a 'serum HCG' done'. It will be out in a matter in a minutes. It is the most definitive test. Family support is welcome but don't get discouraged IF you want the baby. It is possible that the test comes negative if you have just conceived. Get it done in a month again if periods don't come back. If you ARE pregnant focus on your diet, get a lot of minerals... calcium and iron for the most part of it. Proteins too...

Don't worry. You'll do just fine. Best of luck... :)

Answer 31

You're probably really scared right now, and that's totally normal under the circumstances.  You can call 1-800-395-HELP, it's a toll-free number, to talk to a counselor.  They'll help you work through your feelings and figure out how to talk to your parents/bf, find a pregnancy care center, etc.

<3 Kelsey