I'm 16 a nd 7 months pregnant my boyfriend broke up with me and keeps threatening to take me to court for full

Question

last night we got into a huge fight about the baby he said he'd take me to court because "i'm a pshyco" i don't get along with my brothers my house is a piece of c**p my dad's crazy and we can't afford the baby

but none of that's true

but he keeps threatrening it he's 16 he won't go to the doctors appointments and i JUST talked him into being there when i'm in labor his parents didn't want the baby they said abortion they never wanted it and he's said that if the baby has problems he can't take care iof it but i have no proof of that

Answer 1

whats your question or what do you want to know or what do you need help with

Answer 2

What you could do is talk to Both sides of the familes and see if Adoption for a family who wants to be parents but are unable would be willing to have an open Adoption. That means you have some contact like thru letters, pictures and such but no daily contact. And just so you know most boys his age dont get custody of their kids. Just cause your family doesnt get alonge doesnt mean a thing either, things change once the baby is here. So for now its just him threatening you nothing more, if you feel at risk by his comments of behaviors or anyone elses, seek help dont let it go to far where it ends up hurting you or the baby. And some health problems arent noticed til after the baby is born some can be tested for while still in the womb. Talk to your doctor and be sure to voice any concerns you might have, they can hep even if its just by suggesting you talk to someone more qualified... Good luck your going to need it.

Answer 3

he wont get it, hes 16,

Answer 4

well he wont get the baby, and he probobally wont even take you to court and he has no REAL reasons, and since hes only 16 and his legal guardians dont want the baby he wont/cant get the baby. try not to stress out about this to much the baby will know lol. i hope this helped good luck!!!

Answer 5

Sounds horrible.

The stress must be unbearable.

I admire you for carrying the baby instead of having an abortion.

Newborns are noisy, demanding and a lot of work.

Clearly you don't have the support of you "boy friend", and BOY is the appropriate word as he is not a acting like a man.

In addition to that, you don't have the support of you family.

No mention of Mother so???

You are getting close to delivery time and thing are getting more and more screwed up.  No one is helping you with decisions and plans.  Nor is anyone giving any support.

It's well past the abortion time so you either have to have the baby and bring her home to a place that sounds like h**l, or rely on the  ex-"BOY friend" for support.  The other alternative is putting the child up for adoption.  Apparently no one wants to help.  Get help from people who are not in denial.

The BOY friends threats are just that.  His family sound like real pieces of c**p, "they said abortion they never wanted it".

Do this tomorrow..........CALL

Local churches, they deal with situations like this all the time.  

If you are uncomfortable with a church then contact a local hospital and as to speak to a patient advocate social worker.

It may be best to see if they can get you into a home for unwed mothers.  At least everyone there will welcome you and the baby when she comes.  Afterwards you can get advice from SANE unselfish people.

The last thing you need now is stress.  Neither does your child.

It's a baby!  Not a dreaded curse!  You are not the first and not the last young girl that has found herself in this position.

Being pregnant at your young age will leave you with memories you would rather not have.  The memories of the BOY and your family have caused deep wounds that will leave mental scars for life.  You don't deserve this.

I'm sure everyone reading your post is sickened by the conduct of both your family and boyfriend and wish we could do more to help.

Answer 6

i think what he's doing is just threatening and thats it...i bet he doesnt realise how much it's going to cost him to take you to court to get custody as he is only 16 and i doubt he's earning enough....plus u said none of the things he said are true so he has no evidence of this.

Answer 7

i'd say bring it on!!!