I'm 16 and DON'T WANNA BE PREGNANT!!!

Question

about 4 weeks ago, I had s*x with my boyfriend. Unfortunately on that day, I forgot to take the pill. I didn't realize that I had forgotten until I went to bed that night. It's four weeks later, and I'm two days late for my period. Within these past few weeks, I went from being a size 34 C to a 36 D. I keep getting more and more afraid with each passing moment. I talked to my mother this morning and told her about it. She told me it would be a good idea to wait a few days and if my period doesn't show up, well get a PT.

But that doesn't make me feel better right now.

I'm so scared I'm shaking.

I'm just a kid.... and I made a mistake. Now I'm scared out of my mind and don't know what to do! HELP?!

Answer 1

Well, I guess you learned to use condoms next time and the pill. A backup is always good.

And your period could be late from stressing about this.

Answer 2

you need to stop stressing so much because that could delay your period

so leasson learned  and now  you may have to pay big for your mistake  

Answer 3

and i care because.... i mean you choose to have s*x with your boyfriend and you choose to forget to take the pill.. if you really were thinking ahead you would of known that if you dont take the pill you can get pregnant... so its your own falt... srry i cant help you.. i can only suggest for you to take the test and pray your not pregnant.. if you are be preapred to tell your parents, your boyfriend and also the ulitimate worse which is your boyfriend leaving you.. which usually happens to most ppl...  

Answer 4

WAHP WAHP WHAAAAAAAA!

Answer 5

That is why people who aren't ready for parenthood shouldn't have s*x.

Answer 6

There's nothing much you can do about it at the moment..wait until you take a test and if its positive then go to a doctor..once you see a doctor, if you are definatly pregnant..then sit down with you mother and dicuss your options...there is abortion which i hear can be a painful experience and reduce your chance of having kids in the future, then you have adoption...there is a closed adoption where you hand the baby over as soon as its born without seeing it..and then thats it..or you have an open adoption where you get photos, updates and stuff of the baby..you might even get to visit it. and then last you can keep it...if you're not sure what to do ... take some time to think about it..watch the movie juno..its about a pregnant teen..its really funny and might help you in your decision....until then good luck!!!  

ps...dont worry tooo much...you dont wanna get all stressed out if you're not sure..just relax...cuz you might just be going thru some changes cuz birth control does that to you..so just relax..im sure it will work out for the better. and once again..good luck!!

Answer 7

home pregnancy test

you made a mistake of

having s*x at a young age

and now this is your

consequence.

Hope you learned your lesson.

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Answer 8

You need to know if you're actually pregnant or not before you can decide what to do about it - hang on for a few more days, then get a test! I'm SO glad that you were able to speak with your mother about this.

In the event that you are pregnant, you have a few options.

You can abort the pregnancy.  Regardless of what anyone says here, your parents CANNOT force you out of aborting if that is the choice you make, nor can they force you TO abort if you've made the choice to go through with it. Many, many people have had this procedure - there is a LOT of propoganda out there, both for and against aborting the fetus - some regret it, others do not. It's a personal choice for YOU, but your window of opportunity is limited. Do not let anyone pressure you in this decision.

You can allow the egg to develop and enter the world of motherhood. This route is obviously difficult, and not as lovely as celebrities make it seem. Not saying that you're influenced by that, but I am trying to make the point that raising a child well is not easy to do. It is not your mother's responsiblity to even help you...but, if she does, remember it is through her grace and not an obligation. Your boyfriend will be required to pay child support if you pursue the issue, but a child needs much, much more than money. It will need (at least) the next 18 years of your life.

You could also give the child up for adoption. Harder than it seems, I've heard, and a somewhat risky process. There are many couples who are looking to adopt a newborn to raise as their own - the problem with this (aside from the many children living in shelters already) is that you will know, for the rest of your life, that a piece of you is out there in the world, living and breathing without knowing much, if anything, of your existance. Then again, if aborting is against some belief and raising the child is going to hinder your future, adoption may be a great option for you.

Obviously, these are very brief glance-overs as to the reality of each option. I am not meaning to steer you in any direction, not at all. However, if I were in your shoes, I would choose to abort.

I'm sure I'll get plenty of thumbs-down, and that's fine. That's ignorance at work for ya *smiles*. Think about this, though - you were ALREADY taking precautions against pregnancy, and you made a simple mistake. Forgot to take a pill. So one forgotten pill should cost you your future? Don't get me wrong, you can make an excellent future out of being a mother - it won't be easy, but nothing worthwhile ever is easy. If you DON'T WANT to be a mother, though, that's fine - don't let people judge you for making a decision based on what you need and want, as it's your life. Should you bring a child into the world if you don't even want it? Let alone that you're not really old enough to provide for it without help?

Talk with your mother. The fact that you two have already talked makes the next steps that much easier. If it turns out that you are pregnant, discuss your options with her, and tell her what you want to do. NO ONE can make you keep OR give up on a pregnancy. This is, ultimately, your choice.  

Answer 9

take a preganancy test. =]

Answer 10

In the meantime, worrying isn't going to help the situation.  You made a mistake and now you learned not to have s*x at such a young age.  

Answer 11

you should be proud you went to your mom.

talk to her, she knows best.

good luck

Answer 12

well there is not a whole lot u can do stressing does not help though it just makes things worse so try to relax and have ur mom help u out cause sounds like she is willing to help  

Answer 13

If your a KID you shouldn't been having unprotected s*x and having s*x. There's always a chance of pregnancy when your having s*x. So if you pregnant deal with it. You should have knew better.

Answer 14

Yes you are a kid and yes you made a mistake, but you did the right thing by going to your mother and talking to her about it, most young girls do not have that kind of relationship with their mother. I got pregnant at 17 and I remember how I felt, scared!! You are a very lucky girl to have a mother to talk to because most don't. The best advice I or anyone else can give you is "learn from your mistakes" and don't do it again because in the long run it really isn't fair to you or the baby.

Answer 15

It won't hurt you to take a pregnancy test now if you want too. Even if you are pregnant you have many options.

Answer 16

ABORTION, a stands for a-hole over here got me pregnant, b stands for breast size is getting bigger, o stands for oh S**t i ruined my future, r stands for retarded, t stands for time for my period to come, i stands for i didnt do it(my boyfriend did it), o stands for on the road to the abortion clinic, and n stands for na thats the best decision for me!

good luck, hope this dosent ruin your future, mommy!  

Answer 17

That's great that you talked to your mom about it, hopefully she will be a support to you through this if it turns out your are pregnant.

If you are pregnant, a great place to go for support and reassurance is a Crisis Pregnancy Centre.  The one in my area is amazing, with loving non-judgmental people who present you all options and support you through your decisions.  If you don't know of any such places, feel free to contact me and I'll see if I can help in any way.  I have a friend who placed her baby for adoption, a friend who aborted her baby, and a friend who parented her baby (at age 16).

Don't be afraid.  You will make it through this, whatever the outcome.  You are certainly not alone.

Answer 18

if you grown enough to lay there and do it, then be grown enough to deal with the consequences

Answer 19

you will learn from your "mistake" and you should take a pregnancy test if you miss your period, if its positive then you have to find a reasonable option for the child, adoption would be the best for it if youre not ready at all, if its negative then you will always remember to take the pill as a precaution.

Answer 20

OMGGG DON'T DO IT, AND YOU'LL BE FINE!

OMG PEOPLE GET ME SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MAD.

Answer 21

Too late to cry over spilled milk now. What can you do other than getting a Pregnancy test?

You should have thought of that before you hopped into bed with your boyfriend.

= )

Answer 22

don't listen to everyone saying 'you shouldn't be having s*x at your age'  it's your decision. I'm 16 too, trust me i've had a few scares in the past  i was like 6 days late for my period and had nvr been more than a day late in my life.

u need to calm down, if you get yourself too worked up then you could be delaying your period. if you only missed one pill it isn't too bad, my doctor told me one missed pill shouldn't cause any harm.

have you had any other symptoms?

-nausea

-throwing up

-feeling light headed

-back pain

-cramping

-feeling very tired

-feeling really dizzy/fainting

-implantation bleeding

i would reccomend you take a test right away as it is likely you will be able to tell now.

relax  everything could turn out ok.  i was scared out of my head when i thought i could be pregnant.

wish u the best of luck xxxxxxx